Bokanovsky
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That's exactly how I feel right now.shyguy32 said:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do any of you get tired of it all?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't get annoyed (when talking to them about non-sexytime topics) but my mind seems to automatically drift to other things in the middle of conversation, like what I'll be squatting in my next gym session, or the price of rice in China.
So atm I'm working a niche market of women who don't speak much English and I don't speak much of their language. They're so much more enjoyable to be around when you don't understand what they're saying and their accent sounds cute or sexy.
So atm I'm working a niche market of women who don't speak much English and I don't speak much of their language. They're so much more enjoyable to be around when you don't understand what they're saying and their accent sounds cute or sexy.