Bokanovsky
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That's exactly how I feel right now.shyguy32 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do any of you get tired of it all?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't get annoyed (when talking to them about non-sexytime topics) but my mind seems to automatically drift to other things in the middle of conversation, like what I'll be squatting in my next gym session, or the price of rice in China.
So atm I'm working a niche market of women who don't speak much English and I don't speak much of their language. They're so much more enjoyable to be around when you don't understand what they're saying and their accent sounds cute or sexy.
So atm I'm working a niche market of women who don't speak much English and I don't speak much of their language. They're so much more enjoyable to be around when you don't understand what they're saying and their accent sounds cute or sexy.