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Do alpha males pay for sex?

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These responses crack me up.

Although I have never paid legal tender in exchange for a lay, we have all "paid" in some shape or form.

If I buy a gal a drink, take her out or even respond to some useless and meaningless text ... because it will lead to my desired 'end result.' then, I've "paid" in some way and so has everyone else here.

The fact that many members here are trying to prove their "Alpha-ness" to a bunch of internet male strangers among this forum is definitely a new low.

Fact is; we have all 'paid' in some shape or form... and denial of the facts doesn't change them.
Agreed. This place has turned to garbage.
 

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PUA is a hobby. Leave it at that. If you go further you sound pathetic.
 

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@Serenity covered all of the points i would have made so not much for me too add

Personally no never appealed to me even in my harshest of dry spells

Would i consider a "pink sheet" high level escort in my older age before i die yea i think i probably would just too tick it off the list

For the question as to why women do this work its simple

Most women really enjoy having sex where as we nut once and will be done for a few hours she can orgasm over and over and over one man after another

Many women realise that indulging in this endless pleasure soon loses its appeal and is tabooed by society so they do a good job at keeping their wanton desires bottled up.....but ever wondered why you hear them random stories about some chick having a few too many at the office party and she ends up letting 4 co-workers screw her in a hotel room ?

Yea it happens a lot

but working girls they are a completely different kettle of fish they have given into their need for sexual pleasure and now it consumes them

Its low skilled , cheap and easy labour .....i suspect a lot of working girls get to the point where they can't actually enjoy genuine sex with a partner

It will have to be transactional or dirty sex

which throws up a myriad of its own issues
 

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If you pay for a massage and if she is not hot then you are a loser. Prove me wrong.

Girls who get money for massage have lost their souls.

Only free massage counts. That makes me Alpha.
 

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Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?
I paid for an escort in two occasions on December 4 & December 5, 2014. I didn't have penetrative sex with either prostitute but was sexual in some way with both of them (as is obvious because their clothes were off). I also visited an Asian escort but left the incall location because left the location and visited another one across town.

The experience after the first escort was great. I booked another escort the day afterwards. Second escort was great too but got too sexual with her than I planned and released on that session. I lost the rest of the month to a nasty demonic anxiety/panic attack, insomnia, and thought I was going to die or completely lose my on different occasions within that month.

Fast forward to 2021. I have paid OnlyFans subscriptions to some escorts. Didn't really connect with anyone, but this one escort, who is a mixed-race escort (like I'm mixed-race), I really liked her page. I paid $ 5.00 for a joi video session and saw her nude and speak over the video. I didn't feel any after effects and feel really good about it. She has loads of pictures, both hardcore/softcore and she has basically made my month as far as looking for a good online escort.

There is also another OF escort I was thinking about who is sending out personal videos, but she doesn't allow blacks to visit her on her ad so I'm not too sure I want to support her OF page, even though an online OF experience may be different from an actual in-person experience. I'm still tempted through since you don't have to show your face, and are totally anonymous (unless you want to show yourself) when dealing with online escortcelling.

Other online escorts have been weak. I subscribed to this one black escort, and she posted nude pics of herself. Then I found out she was married and her husband died. That killed the spirit since now I felt I commit adultery by looking at her pic without knowing she was married, and I don't like looking at women who are married. There is this other Filipina online escort I subscribed to there is not much chemistry so I don't think I'll extend either subscriptions (which I got on a discount). Honestly, if it wasn't for that mix-raced escort I probably would have given up on OnlyFans for online escortcelling. (I might give it up anyway because its against my religion and I just need to repent and stop this)
 

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There s the something special category too. If you want to walk the chick around in a dog collar or whatever floats your boat maybe the gf won't provide that service. Putin etc special case they re so removed from the paying it would just be the air they breathe.
 

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Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?
I think that is bad seen just for guys that are insecure about their atractiveness.

As you can see, these guys don't even know what kind of men go to pros. Albeit many weirdos go to pros, most of customers are married men, men with girlfriends...
I have paid for sex. They are sl00ts, cheap women. The maximun I can give them is some cheap bills. I have done it even when I had girlfriends just to taste different p00ssies through the week. It is just cheap sex.

What I do not feel any remorse? Because we ALWAYS pay, or give something in ex change.
What do I prefer? Call a random girls from Tinder, feed their egos a pair of hours, then bring them to a hotel or to my place and then to fake that I really care about them after the sex? If you value these sl00ts more than your time, then go for them, entertain them and think you are the alpha in the mind of a girl that is worth nothing. Who cares about what a sl00t can think about you?
For me a girl that is not MARRIAGE material can fuk off.

As I said before, I used to go to pros even having girlfriends that got deep passionated/in love with me. So, this argument that if you go to pros is because you can not atract a girl is BS. Just ugly guys could feel like that. I feel sorry for guys that treat fast food as a fancy food and feel alpha for that.
 
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These responses crack me up.

Although I have never paid legal tender in exchange for a lay, we have all "paid" in some shape or form.

If I buy a gal a drink, take her out or even respond to some useless and meaningless text ... because it will lead to my desired 'end result.' then, I've "paid" in some way and so has everyone else here.

The fact that many members here are trying to prove their "Alpha-ness" to a bunch of internet male strangers among this forum is definitely a new low.

Fact is; we have all 'paid' in some shape or form... and denial of the facts doesn't change them.
Yes. Sl00ts are paid with cheap money and disdain after sex.

The other ones pay with money, time and faking emotions to please the another girl.

Who is paying more? Obviously not the man who hired the pro.
 

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Can’t prove it either way I suppose. A good example of men who use power alone are pimps however
There s the something special category too. If you want to walk the chick around in a dog collar or whatever floats your boat maybe the gf won't provide that service. Putin etc special case they re so removed from the paying it would just be the air they breathe.
Really downing that red pill kool-aid.

Men pay for sex. If not explicitly you pay with time (the more valuable resource). But a majority of men have or will pay for sexual acts directly at some point in their lives.
 

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Taking care of the bill during the seduction process to show that you take care of your woman, or purchasing status symbols in order to attract females, is not in any way the same as hiring a woman to touch your penis.

This is one of the more annoying analogies people draw to justify banging hookers. Not that’s unjustified to bang hookers. Do it if you want. Just stop pretending it’s somehow only one degree of separation from actually attracting and seducing real women.
Nobody said that with bill someone can buy *atraction*. It is impossible.

It is just sex. By no means I would be comfortable I a girl marries me just for my money, for example, but not for real sexual atraction.

That being said, if I want just to fk and have fast food sex, it doesnt bother me to pay. IDGAF what a sl00t thinks.
 

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If I had a son, I'd buy him a hooker at age 18 to help him understand pu$$y isn't anything special. I'd let him know that there will be women that come into his life that shouldn't be treated any different. One nite stands, girls you really aren't that into, hookers, etc.....it's about releasing sexual tension and enjoying the moment.
I absolutely second you on this. It used to be like that in the ol' times. Many men now are p00sified.
 

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Really downing that red pill kool-aid.

Men pay for sex. If not explicitly you pay with time (the more valuable resource). But a majority of men have or will pay for sexual acts directly at some point in their lives.
It reminds me about these guys that go to Ukraine, buy fake Rolex, rent expensive cars, pay the whole expensive dinner, fake real interest in the soul of a girl just to access their vag!nas. And they say they don't pay for sex? Oh sure... This is real pedestalization of vag!na, in my eyes.

PS: Im not by any means discrediting game and real seduction.
 
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