Do alpha males pay for sex?

[corrector]

Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?

I paid for an escort in two occasions on December 4 & December 5, 2014. I didn't have penetrative sex with either prostitute but was sexual in some way with both of them (as is obvious because their clothes were off). I also visited an Asian escort but left the incall location because left the location and visited another one across town.

The experience after the first escort was great. I booked another escort the day afterwards. Second escort was great too but got too sexual with her than I planned and released on that session. I lost the rest of the month to a nasty demonic anxiety/panic attack, insomnia, and thought I was going to die or completely lose my on different occasions within that month.

Fast forward to 2021. I have paid OnlyFans subscriptions to some escorts. Didn't really connect with anyone, but this one escort, who is a mixed-race escort (like I'm mixed-race), I really liked her page. I paid $ 5.00 for a joi video session and saw her nude and speak over the video. I didn't feel any after effects and feel really good about it. She has loads of pictures, both hardcore/softcore and she has basically made my month as far as looking for a good online escort.

There is also another OF escort I was thinking about who is sending out personal videos, but she doesn't allow blacks to visit her on her ad so I'm not too sure I want to support her OF page, even though an online OF experience may be different from an actual in-person experience. I'm still tempted through since you don't have to show your face, and are totally anonymous (unless you want to show yourself) when dealing with online escortcelling.

Other online escorts have been weak. I subscribed to this one black escort, and she posted nude pics of herself. Then I found out she was married and her husband died. That killed the spirit since now I felt I commit adultery by looking at her pic without knowing she was married, and I don't like looking at women who are married. There is this other Filipina online escort I subscribed to there is not much chemistry so I don't think I'll extend either subscriptions (which I got on a discount). Honestly, if it wasn't for that mix-raced escort I probably would have given up on OnlyFans for online escortcelling. (I might give it up anyway because its against my religion and I just need to repent and stop this)

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

If time is money, everyone pays

 

[EyeBRollin]

For good example of a political alpha look at Putin or Fidel Castro. Pretty sure they don’t pay for women. Power is enough when you are at that level

I bet the contrary.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I bet the contrary.

Can’t prove it either way I suppose. A good example of men who use power alone are pimps however

 

[ubercat]

There s the something special category too. If you want to walk the chick around in a dog collar or whatever floats your boat maybe the gf won't provide that service. Putin etc special case they re so removed from the paying it would just be the air they breathe.

 

[ZosoWicca]

Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?

I think that is bad seen just for guys that are insecure about their atractiveness.

As you can see, these guys don't even know what kind of men go to pros. Albeit many weirdos go to pros, most of customers are married men, men with girlfriends...
I have paid for sex. They are sl00ts, cheap women. The maximun I can give them is some cheap bills. I have done it even when I had girlfriends just to taste different p00ssies through the week. It is just cheap sex.

What I do not feel any remorse? Because we ALWAYS pay, or give something in ex change.
What do I prefer? Call a random girls from Tinder, feed their egos a pair of hours, then bring them to a hotel or to my place and then to fake that I really care about them after the sex? If you value these sl00ts more than your time, then go for them, entertain them and think you are the alpha in the mind of a girl that is worth nothing. Who cares about what a sl00t can think about you?
For me a girl that is not MARRIAGE material can fuk off.

As I said before, I used to go to pros even having girlfriends that got deep passionated/in love with me. So, this argument that if you go to pros is because you can not atract a girl is BS. Just ugly guys could feel like that. I feel sorry for guys that treat fast food as a fancy food and feel alpha for that.

 

[ZosoWicca]

These responses crack me up.

Although I have never paid legal tender in exchange for a lay, we have all "paid" in some shape or form.

If I buy a gal a drink, take her out or even respond to some useless and meaningless text ... because it will lead to my desired 'end result.' then, I've "paid" in some way and so has everyone else here.

The fact that many members here are trying to prove their "Alpha-ness" to a bunch of internet male strangers among this forum is definitely a new low.

Fact is; we have all 'paid' in some shape or form... and denial of the facts doesn't change them.

Yes. Sl00ts are paid with cheap money and disdain after sex.

The other ones pay with money, time and faking emotions to please the another girl.

Who is paying more? Obviously not the man who hired the pro.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Can’t prove it either way I suppose. A good example of men who use power alone are pimps however

There s the something special category too. If you want to walk the chick around in a dog collar or whatever floats your boat maybe the gf won't provide that service. Putin etc special case they re so removed from the paying it would just be the air they breathe.

Really downing that red pill kool-aid.

Men pay for sex. If not explicitly you pay with time (the more valuable resource). But a majority of men have or will pay for sexual acts directly at some point in their lives.

 

[ZosoWicca]

Taking care of the bill during the seduction process to show that you take care of your woman, or purchasing status symbols in order to attract females, is not in any way the same as hiring a woman to touch your penis.

This is one of the more annoying analogies people draw to justify banging hookers. Not that’s unjustified to bang hookers. Do it if you want. Just stop pretending it’s somehow only one degree of separation from actually attracting and seducing real women.

Nobody said that with bill someone can buy *atraction*. It is impossible.

It is just sex. By no means I would be comfortable I a girl marries me just for my money, for example, but not for real sexual atraction.

That being said, if I want just to fk and have fast food sex, it doesnt bother me to pay. IDGAF what a sl00t thinks.

 

[ZosoWicca]

If I had a son, I'd buy him a hooker at age 18 to help him understand pu$$y isn't anything special. I'd let him know that there will be women that come into his life that shouldn't be treated any different. One nite stands, girls you really aren't that into, hookers, etc.....it's about releasing sexual tension and enjoying the moment.

I absolutely second you on this. It used to be like that in the ol' times. Many men now are p00sified.

 

[ZosoWicca]

Alpha males do what they want.

The best answer.

 

[ZosoWicca]

Sounds like you have very little life experience and yet you think you know everything.

He definitely doesn't know anything about the scort's world.

 

[ZosoWicca]

Really downing that red pill kool-aid.

Men pay for sex. If not explicitly you pay with time (the more valuable resource). But a majority of men have or will pay for sexual acts directly at some point in their lives.

It reminds me about these guys that go to Ukraine, buy fake Rolex, rent expensive cars, pay the whole expensive dinner, fake real interest in the soul of a girl just to access their vag!nas. And they say they don't pay for sex? Oh sure... This is real pedestalization of vag!na, in my eyes.

PS: Im not by any means discrediting game and real seduction.

 

[Pandora]

I find it strange how some people are so emotional about sex. As if it's some kind of sacred bonding ritual. Sex is just a physical activity that happens to be enjoyable. It's also something that men enjoy far more than women.

Rich men often pay for sex, simply because they can. Their time is worth far too much to spend it "getting to know" women that may or may not ever put out or having to deal with their ugly personalities.

You make a good point about the rich men thing. But I disagree about sex not being a sacred act. It is absolutely a sacred act. There is nothing casual about sex ( like the saying goes). You definitely exchange energy when you have sex with a person. Women even retain the DNA of the men they sleep with. You probably dont believe in any of the new age woo woo mumbo jumbo...but its true to a large extent. Sex is nothing to play with. I wish I had know that when I was younger lol.

Btw great post OP...I wish I had read this post before making the one I did on Sex Work and Simps. I would have never made it.

 

[Pandora]

It's worth paying NOT to have to get to know most women.

Okay this is a good point.

 

[corrector]

I think that is bad seen just for guys that are insecure about their atractiveness.

As you can see, these guys don't even know what kind of men go to pros. Albeit many weirdos go to pros, most of customers are married men, men with girlfriends...
I have paid for sex. They are sl00ts, cheap women. The maximun I can give them is some cheap bills. I have done it even when I had girlfriends just to taste different p00ssies through the week. It is just cheap sex.

What I do not feel any remorse? Because we ALWAYS pay, or give something in ex change.
What do I prefer? Call a random girls from Tinder, feed their egos a pair of hours, then bring them to a hotel or to my place and then to fake that I really care about them after the sex? If you value these sl00ts more than your time, then go for them, entertain them and think you are the alpha in the mind of a girl that is worth nothing. Who cares about what a sl00t can think about you?
For me a girl that is not MARRIAGE material can fuk off.

As I said before, I used to go to pros even having girlfriends that got deep passionated/in love with me. So, this argument that if you go to pros is because you can not atract a girl is BS. Just ugly guys could feel like that. I feel sorry for guys that treat fast food as a fancy food and feel alpha for that.

That sounds pagan dude.

 

[ubercat]

Really downing that red pill kool-aid.

No KOOL aid. The OP asked about alphas. Not most men. Any Brit here can vouch for members of the House of lords being an ongoing joke in the 80s and 90s for the number of times they were caught tied up in granny panties getting spanked by mistress X

 

[Grounded eagle]

I paid for an escort in two occasions on December 4 & December 5, 2014. I didn't have penetrative sex with either prostitute but was sexual in some way with both of them (as is obvious because their clothes were off). I also visited an Asian escort but left the incall location because left the location and visited another one across town.

The experience after the first escort was great. I booked another escort the day afterwards. Second escort was great too but got too sexual with her than I planned and released on that session. I lost the rest of the month to a nasty demonic anxiety/panic attack, insomnia, and thought I was going to die or completely lose my on different occasions within that month.

Fast forward to 2021. I have paid OnlyFans subscriptions to some escorts. Didn't really connect with anyone, but this one escort, who is a mixed-race escort (like I'm mixed-race), I really liked her page. I paid $ 5.00 for a joi video session and saw her nude and speak over the video. I didn't feel any after effects and feel really good about it. She has loads of pictures, both hardcore/softcore and she has basically made my month as far as looking for a good online escort.

There is also another OF escort I was thinking about who is sending out personal videos, but she doesn't allow blacks to visit her on her ad so I'm not too sure I want to support her OF page, even though an online OF experience may be different from an actual in-person experience. I'm still tempted through since you don't have to show your face, and are totally anonymous (unless you want to show yourself) when dealing with online escortcelling.

Other online escorts have been weak. I subscribed to this one black escort, and she posted nude pics of herself. Then I found out she was married and her husband died. That killed the spirit since now I felt I commit adultery by looking at her pic without knowing she was married, and I don't like looking at women who are married. There is this other Filipina online escort I subscribed to there is not much chemistry so I don't think I'll extend either subscriptions (which I got on a discount). Honestly, if it wasn't for that mix-raced escort I probably would have given up on OnlyFans for online escortcelling. (I might give it up anyway because its against my religion and I just need to repent and stop this)

12 years here and you’ve learned nothing.

 

[typical]

You pay for sex one way or another. It will cost you time or money or both.

Doesn't matter if its some woman you met at the park or pub or a hired professional, you pay no matter what. As long as what you're "paying" isn't detrimental to your life and your goals do what you want who gives a FU(K what anyone else thinks.

 

[ZosoWicca]

You pay for sex one way or another. It will cost you time or money or both.

Doesn't matter if its some woman you met at the park or pub or a hired professional, you pay no matter what. As long as what you're "paying" isn't detrimental to your life and your goals do what you want who gives a FU(K what anyone else thinks.

Mic drop.