"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaliMan007

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Sounds like you are looking for a reason to cast blame upon her. Perhaps you being a drunken pill dropper is the reason, and ONLY reason, for the breakup. Stop trying to find reasons to justify the breakup. If she were a drunken druggie, would you want to be with her?

If you convince yourself that she cheated, you can then say it was her fault and that she's a b!tch cvnt wh0re blah blah blah. Then you stop looking in the mirror and stop finding ways with which to improve YOURSELF.

Reality is, it's over, period. Look at it for what it is and evaluate where YOU went wrong and what you could have done differently. This will lead to growth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I believe everyone has their price.

I think girls are more likely to cheat due to the fact that they are more likely to have guys fawning over them to the point where eventually they just feel like they could use the additional attention.

But either way, depending on what someone wants or is looking for (in general, not just from their boyfriend/girlfriend) they may cheat, no matter how much they love their partner.
 
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It doesn't really matter if the girl was nerdish, shy, or insecure. The advantage girls have is that they can be completely passive and let the guy move the interaction along. All they have to do is say okay.
Not saying she cheated though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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