"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do all women cheat?

CaliMan007

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Sounds like you are looking for a reason to cast blame upon her. Perhaps you being a drunken pill dropper is the reason, and ONLY reason, for the breakup. Stop trying to find reasons to justify the breakup. If she were a drunken druggie, would you want to be with her?

If you convince yourself that she cheated, you can then say it was her fault and that she's a b!tch cvnt wh0re blah blah blah. Then you stop looking in the mirror and stop finding ways with which to improve YOURSELF.

Reality is, it's over, period. Look at it for what it is and evaluate where YOU went wrong and what you could have done differently. This will lead to growth.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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faeyt

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I believe everyone has their price.

I think girls are more likely to cheat due to the fact that they are more likely to have guys fawning over them to the point where eventually they just feel like they could use the additional attention.

But either way, depending on what someone wants or is looking for (in general, not just from their boyfriend/girlfriend) they may cheat, no matter how much they love their partner.
 

zekko

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It doesn't really matter if the girl was nerdish, shy, or insecure. The advantage girls have is that they can be completely passive and let the guy move the interaction along. All they have to do is say okay.
Not saying she cheated though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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