"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do all women cheat?

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Sounds like you are looking for a reason to cast blame upon her. Perhaps you being a drunken pill dropper is the reason, and ONLY reason, for the breakup. Stop trying to find reasons to justify the breakup. If she were a drunken druggie, would you want to be with her?

If you convince yourself that she cheated, you can then say it was her fault and that she's a b!tch cvnt wh0re blah blah blah. Then you stop looking in the mirror and stop finding ways with which to improve YOURSELF.

Reality is, it's over, period. Look at it for what it is and evaluate where YOU went wrong and what you could have done differently. This will lead to growth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I believe everyone has their price.

I think girls are more likely to cheat due to the fact that they are more likely to have guys fawning over them to the point where eventually they just feel like they could use the additional attention.

But either way, depending on what someone wants or is looking for (in general, not just from their boyfriend/girlfriend) they may cheat, no matter how much they love their partner.
 
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It doesn't really matter if the girl was nerdish, shy, or insecure. The advantage girls have is that they can be completely passive and let the guy move the interaction along. All they have to do is say okay.
Not saying she cheated though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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