"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do all women cheat?

CaliMan007

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Sounds like you are looking for a reason to cast blame upon her. Perhaps you being a drunken pill dropper is the reason, and ONLY reason, for the breakup. Stop trying to find reasons to justify the breakup. If she were a drunken druggie, would you want to be with her?

If you convince yourself that she cheated, you can then say it was her fault and that she's a b!tch cvnt wh0re blah blah blah. Then you stop looking in the mirror and stop finding ways with which to improve YOURSELF.

Reality is, it's over, period. Look at it for what it is and evaluate where YOU went wrong and what you could have done differently. This will lead to growth.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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faeyt

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I believe everyone has their price.

I think girls are more likely to cheat due to the fact that they are more likely to have guys fawning over them to the point where eventually they just feel like they could use the additional attention.

But either way, depending on what someone wants or is looking for (in general, not just from their boyfriend/girlfriend) they may cheat, no matter how much they love their partner.
 

zekko

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It doesn't really matter if the girl was nerdish, shy, or insecure. The advantage girls have is that they can be completely passive and let the guy move the interaction along. All they have to do is say okay.
Not saying she cheated though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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