I'm just curious to see where you guys came from and where you are now, this could be inspirational to some of the newer guys. This was my first post close to 3 years ago.
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I liked two girls and got put into the friend zone by both of them. After reading some articles, I realized I'm a "nice guy". Here's what happened.
#1. This girl is my physics lab partner. Last week I stopped by her dorm to give her some roses "just because". On Halloween I asked if she was busy, she said she had a lot of homework but said that we needed to talk after class the next day. So we walked together and sat down. She asked me what the roses were for, and I told her because I liked her. She said the gesture was really sweet and I'm a really nice guy, but she just wants to be friends with me...
#2. I've only known this girl for three weeks, haven't put any moves on her yet. She IM's me and we talk for 2 hrs about her relationship problems. At the end she tells me how sweet I am, and is glad that I'm always there for her.
I'm willing to change from an AFC to a DJ. First I gotta evaluate my weaknesses. Looking back, it's obvious I was giving these girls too much attention. Anytime they wanted to talk or wanted something, I WAS THERE. I viewed these girls as queens and thought "if i become her friend she'll realize how good of a guy I am". WRONG, no more of this bull****. I realize girls say they want this stuff, but they don't mean it. Deep down I'm really a nice guy, but I have to change my attitude to get the women I want.
I got looks, personality, and confidence. It seems I have to stop with getting into friendship ****. Thanks, I'll let you guys know how it goes."
Where am I now? I had sex with the two girls within my first year of starting my journey. Currently in a stable relationship by choice. Not only that but I run my own dating advice blog so I can give back a little . You don't truly appreciate how far you've come until you've seen where you came from.
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I liked two girls and got put into the friend zone by both of them. After reading some articles, I realized I'm a "nice guy". Here's what happened.
#1. This girl is my physics lab partner. Last week I stopped by her dorm to give her some roses "just because". On Halloween I asked if she was busy, she said she had a lot of homework but said that we needed to talk after class the next day. So we walked together and sat down. She asked me what the roses were for, and I told her because I liked her. She said the gesture was really sweet and I'm a really nice guy, but she just wants to be friends with me...
#2. I've only known this girl for three weeks, haven't put any moves on her yet. She IM's me and we talk for 2 hrs about her relationship problems. At the end she tells me how sweet I am, and is glad that I'm always there for her.
I'm willing to change from an AFC to a DJ. First I gotta evaluate my weaknesses. Looking back, it's obvious I was giving these girls too much attention. Anytime they wanted to talk or wanted something, I WAS THERE. I viewed these girls as queens and thought "if i become her friend she'll realize how good of a guy I am". WRONG, no more of this bull****. I realize girls say they want this stuff, but they don't mean it. Deep down I'm really a nice guy, but I have to change my attitude to get the women I want.
I got looks, personality, and confidence. It seems I have to stop with getting into friendship ****. Thanks, I'll let you guys know how it goes."
Where am I now? I had sex with the two girls within my first year of starting my journey. Currently in a stable relationship by choice. Not only that but I run my own dating advice blog so I can give back a little . You don't truly appreciate how far you've come until you've seen where you came from.
Oh God, I think I'm gonna be sick