"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJs Immediate HELP needed concerning Travel to China with a 16 years old chick

Lost In the Seas

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The situation is like this:

I am planning to hang out with this girl tmmr to China go to shopping. We live in HK so it's only like 30 min of train ride to get to ther Chinese border.

The problem is that the girl is 16 years old and she doesn't have a Chinese or Hong Kong passport since she is a westerner, which means she needs to apply for a one day vsia to go into Cihna.

The previous times she'd done it she was with her aunts and mom, but this time it will only be us, and im also 16 so im not sure if adult accompany is required for her (a 16 years old) to apply for Chinese visa. I have checked everything on the site but nowhere does it say this, or perhaps i just have poor searching skills..:confused:

thx alot fellow djs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alphathree

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What exactly does international law have to do with picking up women?
 

Lost In the Seas

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lol it is just valid applications minimum age requirement obtainning visa through a foreign passport and lack of adult accompany

anyways i checked with the chinese embassy ya a 16 years old is valid to apply for visa alone WHOHOOOO!! :cheer:

now i gotta check up with the visa customs when they are open at 9 to know what exactly must we do when we get there

thanks anyways
 

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You could just go to Schenzen--my understanding is she can get a visa on arrival there (limited to Schenzen only) witohut having to get one in advance.

Because you're 16 too they won't be worried that you're trying to abduct her or anything. My guess (I've never been in this situation so I'm not 100% sure) is that the worst thing that can happen is she'll be refused entry, in which case you and her simply hop on the train back to Hong Kong.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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