"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJs! Help!

deeloo

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My FR: I saw this HB9 in this club the other night that I wanted to DJ, but a lot of AMOGs were around her and they make me look AFC. But then after 2 minutes I got EC from her, I thought that was a good IOI so I sticked to the 3s rule, I walked up confidently to her, and started with C&F. But she had ASD so I neg hitted her to get her to have LSE. So it all turned out ok. So 10 minutes passed and I was Kinoing her thinkin it would lead to a good ONS, or if better, a FB. I don't want a LTR so thats good. Then I decided to try out what PUAs do so I did NLP for a while. She gave off more IOIs so I thought maybe I should f close instead of # close. It was goin GREAt, no CBs so it won't be like the other C&Bs that I get every friday night. So I took her home and was gonna f close. She had ASD on again and it sucked. She LJBF'd me when I was doin my move cuz she, apparently, had a BF. This is gay, never had this kinda situation happen to me before. Well what can I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aresx

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OMFG, dude i've never IMHO seen a post on SS or FS with so many friggin abbreviations, you have me ROTFL, can if i was a chick i'd get the DIHL AKA DDB look, if you C&F me during your FR. Was it an FR, LR, or a FU, i can't tell because while i was LMAO in MIA, i saw a MILF and an HB in a popup and i became a total AFC as opposed to when I was a DJ and a PUA
 

DJ_Dork

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hey dork, stop speaking in AFC, LOL, ROFL language and speak english. i bet you hang out on AIM a lot too using your suave skills on fat chicks.
 
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