My FR: I saw this HB9 in this club the other night that I wanted to DJ, but a lot of AMOGs were around her and they make me look AFC. But then after 2 minutes I got EC from her, I thought that was a good IOI so I sticked to the 3s rule, I walked up confidently to her, and started with C&F. But she had ASD so I neg hitted her to get her to have LSE. So it all turned out ok. So 10 minutes passed and I was Kinoing her thinkin it would lead to a good ONS, or if better, a FB. I don't want a LTR so thats good. Then I decided to try out what PUAs do so I did NLP for a while. She gave off more IOIs so I thought maybe I should f close instead of # close. It was goin GREAt, no CBs so it won't be like the other C&Bs that I get every friday night. So I took her home and was gonna f close. She had ASD on again and it sucked. She LJBF'd me when I was doin my move cuz she, apparently, had a BF. This is gay, never had this kinda situation happen to me before. Well what can I do?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJs! Help!
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