I've found out that if a girl isn't a 9 or 10 it's a lot easier to be a DJ. Like went out with this girl that was kind of a slut a couple years ago I played hard to get very effectively because I didn't really care if I had her or not I was just looking for ass. And I got because I payed little attention to her except in the bedroom. Now if this girl was a 10 there was no way I would of acted like that because I would have been too afraid of losing her or something and acted more AFCish.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DJism easier if girl not so hot
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
But why not? You have to start somewhere...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Phooey! A real DJ doesn't become less DJ for better girls - in fact, his attraction gives him the urge to become MORE masculine! Read the link in my sig!
i agree with AC/DC, do that and then work up, especially if you have no idea what the hell ur doing, ur first kiss from a slut can be alright (but not a proper drugged up one whoos likely to have caught ****)
You know, it will stupify you in a few months to think that you used to worry about different levels of DJism based on looks.
Looks are genes. This has nothing to do with what the girl has done with her life. Genes will affect how you grow up based on attention you get and everything related to having good genes. Now in the end, a HB1 and a HB9 are both only human. So stop diving humans into categories of difficulty because it's just not true. I will DJ a 10 like I would a 5, it's the same principle just with different breaking points.
Looks are genes. This has nothing to do with what the girl has done with her life. Genes will affect how you grow up based on attention you get and everything related to having good genes. Now in the end, a HB1 and a HB9 are both only human. So stop diving humans into categories of difficulty because it's just not true. I will DJ a 10 like I would a 5, it's the same principle just with different breaking points.
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I'm wierd. Ithink 9s and 10s are easier.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Hmmm...only because their not 10's doesen't mean they're sluts.
I don't know if thats what you ment by your statement I could be wrong.
I've known of a lot of hot girls (9's, exc.) to sleep around.
lik is spot on. good looks are genetic, so they don't deserve any special treatment. it's those attention wh0res who think they're all that, just because they're hot and guys follow them around with their tongues on the ground, but who have nothing else going for them.
the way you should be seeing it is as follows:
clap, clap, clap on your looks, but what else have you got to offer me?
the way you should be seeing it is as follows:
clap, clap, clap on your looks, but what else have you got to offer me?
I agree with ac/dc, who cares if she's not drop dead gorgeous to start? You don't play in the NHL when you start playing hockey. Do what you can...
Anyone heard that, or is everyone preaching, do everything to some insanely high standard to start or else your not a don juan
Anyone heard that, or is everyone preaching, do everything to some insanely high standard to start or else your not a don juan