I've found out that if a girl isn't a 9 or 10 it's a lot easier to be a DJ. Like went out with this girl that was kind of a slut a couple years ago I played hard to get very effectively because I didn't really care if I had her or not I was just looking for ass. And I got because I payed little attention to her except in the bedroom. Now if this girl was a 10 there was no way I would of acted like that because I would have been too afraid of losing her or something and acted more AFCish.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
DJism easier if girl not so hot
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
But why not? You have to start somewhere...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MetalFortress
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Phooey! A real DJ doesn't become less DJ for better girls - in fact, his attraction gives him the urge to become MORE masculine! Read the link in my sig!
i agree with AC/DC, do that and then work up, especially if you have no idea what the hell ur doing, ur first kiss from a slut can be alright (but not a proper drugged up one whoos likely to have caught ****)
You know, it will stupify you in a few months to think that you used to worry about different levels of DJism based on looks.
Looks are genes. This has nothing to do with what the girl has done with her life. Genes will affect how you grow up based on attention you get and everything related to having good genes. Now in the end, a HB1 and a HB9 are both only human. So stop diving humans into categories of difficulty because it's just not true. I will DJ a 10 like I would a 5, it's the same principle just with different breaking points.
Looks are genes. This has nothing to do with what the girl has done with her life. Genes will affect how you grow up based on attention you get and everything related to having good genes. Now in the end, a HB1 and a HB9 are both only human. So stop diving humans into categories of difficulty because it's just not true. I will DJ a 10 like I would a 5, it's the same principle just with different breaking points.
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I'm wierd. Ithink 9s and 10s are easier.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Hmmm...only because their not 10's doesen't mean they're sluts.
I don't know if thats what you ment by your statement I could be wrong.
I've known of a lot of hot girls (9's, exc.) to sleep around.
lik is spot on. good looks are genetic, so they don't deserve any special treatment. it's those attention wh0res who think they're all that, just because they're hot and guys follow them around with their tongues on the ground, but who have nothing else going for them.
the way you should be seeing it is as follows:
clap, clap, clap on your looks, but what else have you got to offer me?
the way you should be seeing it is as follows:
clap, clap, clap on your looks, but what else have you got to offer me?
I agree with ac/dc, who cares if she's not drop dead gorgeous to start? You don't play in the NHL when you start playing hockey. Do what you can...
Anyone heard that, or is everyone preaching, do everything to some insanely high standard to start or else your not a don juan
Anyone heard that, or is everyone preaching, do everything to some insanely high standard to start or else your not a don juan