"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJing in a Small Town. Any help?

Ragin_Asian

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Being on holidays I'm stuck in a small town of 26,000 people. I want to keep going with the DJ stuff but resources and opportunities run very low.

Theres not many new babes and the "village idiots" here pretend they own the new girls which is annoying sometimes and a thorn on the side. Coming from a bigger town cos of uni i think my personality and confidence have been split by coming to the birthplace of my AFCness. By the way I have very little problems in uni with girls. Its just Ive noticed I have no success in my hometown and would like to improve.

I need help here and seriously wanna do something better apart from hanging out wit alcoholic friends who have nuttin better to do.

Does anyone have a special strategy they follow?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dearsappho

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26,000? The ratio of blokes to birds must ensure a healthy dj lifestyle....u cant possibly know all the eligible females in your immediate genepool, surely?
 

Titus

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You have 26,000 people around you? Man, i have 500! :D

Just relax!
Just join jour alcoholic friends. You ain't nothing holier or better then them and you can choose not to drink if you don't want to.
 

Ragin_Asian

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Went out last nite. Made out with 3 chicks so it aint as bad as i initially thought. I think it is just another belief that I cant get chicks in my hometown.

Now I just want a chick who I can date and have a fun time with to relieve boredom in this god forsaken town.

By the way I live in a mining town full of rednecks and wannabe badasses. Half of the guys here shave their heads to either 1. look tough or 2. too lazy to style hair or at least clean it.

I had fun...but i wanna do something fun rather than random sh*t. I will do some approaches when holidays are over.

I'll keep you guys updated.
 
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