"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ'ing and Dating?

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kmurph885

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Yo - I have used some of the stuff on your website, just to brush up on the skills I have, and want to start by saying thanks for everyones input and ideas. I have a question, there is a girl whom I met and we both have hung out a bunch. She wants to date me, and I her. But the problem is, how am I supposed to keep refining my DJ'ing skills, while having a girlfriend. I dont want to mess around with other girls while dating this one, but want to keep refining and perfecting my skills. There is only one thing holding me back from dating this girl, and that's it. Does anyone have any ideas or personal experience on the subject of dating and still DJ'ing. Thanks

-Nick Graf
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kmurph885

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yea? Do you mean like try new techniques and see how well it suits her, and then assume it's a universal technique.
 

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on her, your friends, her friends, everyone
integrate being a DJ into your life, make it just simply apart of you

now if only i could follow this advice i'd be set :D
 
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