"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ'ing and Dating?

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kmurph885

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Yo - I have used some of the stuff on your website, just to brush up on the skills I have, and want to start by saying thanks for everyones input and ideas. I have a question, there is a girl whom I met and we both have hung out a bunch. She wants to date me, and I her. But the problem is, how am I supposed to keep refining my DJ'ing skills, while having a girlfriend. I dont want to mess around with other girls while dating this one, but want to keep refining and perfecting my skills. There is only one thing holding me back from dating this girl, and that's it. Does anyone have any ideas or personal experience on the subject of dating and still DJ'ing. Thanks

-Nick Graf
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kmurph885

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yea? Do you mean like try new techniques and see how well it suits her, and then assume it's a universal technique.
 

evolvingnerd

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on her, your friends, her friends, everyone
integrate being a DJ into your life, make it just simply apart of you

now if only i could follow this advice i'd be set :D
 
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