"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ'ing and Dating?

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kmurph885

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Yo - I have used some of the stuff on your website, just to brush up on the skills I have, and want to start by saying thanks for everyones input and ideas. I have a question, there is a girl whom I met and we both have hung out a bunch. She wants to date me, and I her. But the problem is, how am I supposed to keep refining my DJ'ing skills, while having a girlfriend. I dont want to mess around with other girls while dating this one, but want to keep refining and perfecting my skills. There is only one thing holding me back from dating this girl, and that's it. Does anyone have any ideas or personal experience on the subject of dating and still DJ'ing. Thanks

-Nick Graf
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kmurph885

Guest
yea? Do you mean like try new techniques and see how well it suits her, and then assume it's a universal technique.
 

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on her, your friends, her friends, everyone
integrate being a DJ into your life, make it just simply apart of you

now if only i could follow this advice i'd be set :D
 
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