"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ tactic from... Minnie Pearl?!?

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I saw a show on TV the other night (something about country comedy... doesn't matter), and there was a thing with her on it where she bet a guy "fifty cents" that she could kiss him without getting within three feet of him.

He took the bet. She proceeded to kiss him. He said something to the effect of "but Minnie, you got within three feet of me!"

Her reply, "yep, and here's your fifty cents!"

While I can see how this could be pretty weak, I could also see it being gold (tweaked a bit, of course)...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Field test?

Why don't you field test it and let us know how it goes.
 

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hmmmmm

That is actually pretty creative.. Although I think men could get in trouble nowadays for doing something like that... Depending on where you are.. At least here in the midwest if you do that I think you could be in for some crap depending on the circumstances and of course, the girl. Some would think it was funny/clever, others would cry harrassment.
 

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Re: Field test?

Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Why don't you field test it and let us know how it goes.
And don't forget to wear a flowery sun hat with the price tag hanging from the brim so you can have the full "Mineeie Pearl" effect... :p
 
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