"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ tactic from... Minnie Pearl?!?

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I saw a show on TV the other night (something about country comedy... doesn't matter), and there was a thing with her on it where she bet a guy "fifty cents" that she could kiss him without getting within three feet of him.

He took the bet. She proceeded to kiss him. He said something to the effect of "but Minnie, you got within three feet of me!"

Her reply, "yep, and here's your fifty cents!"

While I can see how this could be pretty weak, I could also see it being gold (tweaked a bit, of course)...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Field test?

Why don't you field test it and let us know how it goes.
 

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hmmmmm

That is actually pretty creative.. Although I think men could get in trouble nowadays for doing something like that... Depending on where you are.. At least here in the midwest if you do that I think you could be in for some crap depending on the circumstances and of course, the girl. Some would think it was funny/clever, others would cry harrassment.
 

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Re: Field test?

Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Why don't you field test it and let us know how it goes.
And don't forget to wear a flowery sun hat with the price tag hanging from the brim so you can have the full "Mineeie Pearl" effect... :p
 
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