no problem, problem was prior to the edit.Docs said:Ok, so what's the problem with crashing at someone's house (especially a chicks?)
*cough, cough*, I'm too sick to go to work.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
no problem, problem was prior to the edit.Docs said:Ok, so what's the problem with crashing at someone's house (especially a chicks?)
*cough, cough*, I'm too sick to go to work.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Exxxxactly. No problem to begin with.:woo:Sadao said:no problem, problem was prior to the edit.
18, senior in HS living at home for the next 2 months.Sp1kez said:Do you have your own place? how old are you? Im just seeing if some of the stuff you used can be used by some1 with no place
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Just maintaining. HB8.5SKINNY is showing me mad ioi's that i will act on sometime this week. HB9model also been showing a lot of ioi's as usual and asked me to her prom haha, i said yes. Other than that, i'm on a leaning out phase for the next 5 weeks or so and running on 1600cals/day so needless to say i'm not myself whatsoever.Zerix said:What is going on? There must've been at least one approach throughout this inactivity![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yeaaaa i know, time flew by and when i was going to fvck her, we arrived at our destination. But yo she totally caved in and called me at like 1am and chatted for a good 45min and can't wait to see me again.Zerix said:Haha, wow, nice, I was expecting a full lay after reading the drinking part haha but good job on the progress with her![]()
I have the feeling she wants it.Sadao said:still nothing. I had a female friend of mine tell me that she's probably really confused because she let her emotions for me show last night, but on the other hand knows there can be nothing between us.
Of course on MY other hand i could me completely over analyzing this and it could very possibly just have been a hook up with a drunk chick. Although she was saying things like "we should have done this 7 years ago", "this is so surreal", "did you EVER think this would happen?"
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HB8.5SKINNY gets mad excited and hugs me every time she sees me, hb7straight is still all stalker status over me and comes and talks to me whenever she can. Other than that, i'm really trying to cut down on the socializing at work, i can't get fired before early june so i have to keep the job until then.Zerix said:Anything happenin in or around work though?
Saving up for Az?Sadao said:HB8.5SKINNY gets mad excited and hugs me every time she sees me, hb7straight is still all stalker status over me and comes and talks to me whenever she can. Other than that, i'm really trying to cut down on the socializing at work, i can't get fired before early june so i have to keep the job until then.
Well i have enough for all expenses in Arizona for a couple months, but i NEED to have a job for this ROP class I'm taking in school, so if i lose my job i get dropped from the class.Zerix said:Saving up for Az?
Either way, work IS more important.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.