"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ mystery #2: Only the strongest, best looking alphas get all the chicks until..

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If only the strongest, best looking alphas get all the chicks to date them then what do they morph into little sniveling "beta" pushovers soon as a DJ decides he wants to try to bang some dudes girlfriend and all of a sudden the DJ magically turns into the strongest, best looking, alpha male?

Any dude that has a highly sought after fine looking chick is only the best "alpha" when he gets the chick but when some other dude tries to go for his girl he instantly turns into a pandering "beta" and the dude who wants her automatically becomes the "true alpha"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That just means the dude isn't an alpha. If he has the correct mindset, no other dude will throw him off his game. A good way too tell what he posers really are... D they get insecure when challenged by another male or shrug it off?
 

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So I'm guessing only the non-alphas get the hot chicks that DJ's want to bang and take from them. Which means the whole myth of only alphas get all the chicks is just mental masturbation. If the top alphas only do get all the chicks then they mysteriously transform to little whiny betas and the DJ turns into Captain Alpha after he eats a bowl of his Lucky Charms.

Point being every dude that gets a hot chick isn't always the ultimate alpha, some may be but they don't just become spineless wimps soon as some "DJ" decides he's going to try to hit on some dudes GF.

Perhaps some of you will find out one day if the chicks boyfriend you decide to go after winds up being that ultimate alpha you shouldn't have run into.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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