"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ mystery #2: Only the strongest, best looking alphas get all the chicks until..

9Volt

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If only the strongest, best looking alphas get all the chicks to date them then what do they morph into little sniveling "beta" pushovers soon as a DJ decides he wants to try to bang some dudes girlfriend and all of a sudden the DJ magically turns into the strongest, best looking, alpha male?

Any dude that has a highly sought after fine looking chick is only the best "alpha" when he gets the chick but when some other dude tries to go for his girl he instantly turns into a pandering "beta" and the dude who wants her automatically becomes the "true alpha"?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That just means the dude isn't an alpha. If he has the correct mindset, no other dude will throw him off his game. A good way too tell what he posers really are... D they get insecure when challenged by another male or shrug it off?
 

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So I'm guessing only the non-alphas get the hot chicks that DJ's want to bang and take from them. Which means the whole myth of only alphas get all the chicks is just mental masturbation. If the top alphas only do get all the chicks then they mysteriously transform to little whiny betas and the DJ turns into Captain Alpha after he eats a bowl of his Lucky Charms.

Point being every dude that gets a hot chick isn't always the ultimate alpha, some may be but they don't just become spineless wimps soon as some "DJ" decides he's going to try to hit on some dudes GF.

Perhaps some of you will find out one day if the chicks boyfriend you decide to go after winds up being that ultimate alpha you shouldn't have run into.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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