"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJ mystery #2: Only the strongest, best looking alphas get all the chicks until..

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If only the strongest, best looking alphas get all the chicks to date them then what do they morph into little sniveling "beta" pushovers soon as a DJ decides he wants to try to bang some dudes girlfriend and all of a sudden the DJ magically turns into the strongest, best looking, alpha male?

Any dude that has a highly sought after fine looking chick is only the best "alpha" when he gets the chick but when some other dude tries to go for his girl he instantly turns into a pandering "beta" and the dude who wants her automatically becomes the "true alpha"?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That just means the dude isn't an alpha. If he has the correct mindset, no other dude will throw him off his game. A good way too tell what he posers really are... D they get insecure when challenged by another male or shrug it off?
 

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So I'm guessing only the non-alphas get the hot chicks that DJ's want to bang and take from them. Which means the whole myth of only alphas get all the chicks is just mental masturbation. If the top alphas only do get all the chicks then they mysteriously transform to little whiny betas and the DJ turns into Captain Alpha after he eats a bowl of his Lucky Charms.

Point being every dude that gets a hot chick isn't always the ultimate alpha, some may be but they don't just become spineless wimps soon as some "DJ" decides he's going to try to hit on some dudes GF.

Perhaps some of you will find out one day if the chicks boyfriend you decide to go after winds up being that ultimate alpha you shouldn't have run into.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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