What is the music type what would a general DonJuan need to listen to? DJing, dance, :rock: techno, metal :rockon: , rap & hip-hop, trendy??? So many choices. Please don't everybody reply "listen just what suits you best" :trouble:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Eclipse24 said:What is the music type what would a general DonJuan need to listen to? DJing, dance, :rock: techno, metal :rockon: , rap & hip-hop, trendy??? So many choices. Please don't everybody reply "listen just what suits you best" :trouble:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Man, it's true that you just asked what a Don Juan is supposed to ask, you're right. However, what do you need that for? Maybe so that you could seem to be someone who "fits in" the DJ crowd? It doesn't work like that, man. If a girl asks what music you listen to, just tell her, simple as that.Eclipse24 said:looool why would I listen to music I don't like!? You're kinda weird you know that? I didn't ask what music you listen to so I could be like you? I wanted to make a comparison?
Well, that's... uhm... ahm... interestingEclipse24 said:If it makes you happy I listen metal, rock, soul and dance including turbo polka =)
Artists (in no particlar order) Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Seal, Elton John, J. S. Bach, W. A. Mozart, South Park Central, Weird Al Yankovich, Alcazar, Atomik Harmonik, Colonia, Crazy Frog, Dogma, Eric Prydz, Europe, Haiduci, Hampton the Hampster, Kylie Minougue, Las Ketchup, Ricky Martin, Shakira, Daniel Achilles, T2, Discohonk, Apocalyptica, Children of Bodom, Cradle of Filth, Hammerfall, Iron Maiden, Marilyn Manson, Metallica, Slipknot, Bob Marley, Willie Nelson, Jay-Z, Black Eyed Peas, Ludacris, MC Hammer, Chemical Brothers, Will Smith, Black Sabbath, Blink 182, Bon Jovi, Queen, The Doors, The Rolling Stones, Rafael (SSN), Lordi, Robbie Williams, Ich Troje, Daz Sampson, It United.
I play piano (classical, not rock academy) on which I can play things like Mozart aswell as Metallica's Nothing Else Matters, Doors' Riders on the Storms. I mix music using Traktor DJ Studio so I fvckin have my own style thank you for asking. As for the grammar I hope it's better. If it isn't than don't read it...
Eclipse24 said:The reason why I ask what should a common DJ listen to (I realize it's just a question of style) is because whatever I say everybody wonders why. If I say I listen metal it's - oh just a common metal?. If it's classical they think I'm gay. If it's techno and dance - they think I'm just trendy. SO. Maybe I haven't stated my question good but that's no reason to think I wanna listen what you listen...
I'll tell you what, AMOGing doesn't work like that. Mostly, because this is the internet, so we could care less about someone who tries to act above us and tell us to cool down.Eclipse24 said:I may be a newbie here but you're a bit too much pissed on everyone who asks a question...Not that I'm gonna leave this forum like that guy something-x-henry did but you should cool down you know that?
If you really care, I mostly listen to your same music, but does that make me a Don Juan? I think nobody knows what Pook or Mistery or Style or Gunwitch or Anti-Dump listen to, but does this make them less Don Juanish to our eyes? I don't think so.Eclipse24 said:******************
Now please (hope that "please" wasn't the problem) tell me what you listen to.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.