What is the music type what would a general DonJuan need to listen to? DJing, dance, :rock: techno, metal :rockon: , rap & hip-hop, trendy??? So many choices. Please don't everybody reply "listen just what suits you best" :trouble:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Eclipse24 said:What is the music type what would a general DonJuan need to listen to? DJing, dance, :rock: techno, metal :rockon: , rap & hip-hop, trendy??? So many choices. Please don't everybody reply "listen just what suits you best" :trouble:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Man, it's true that you just asked what a Don Juan is supposed to ask, you're right. However, what do you need that for? Maybe so that you could seem to be someone who "fits in" the DJ crowd? It doesn't work like that, man. If a girl asks what music you listen to, just tell her, simple as that.Eclipse24 said:looool why would I listen to music I don't like!? You're kinda weird you know that? I didn't ask what music you listen to so I could be like you? I wanted to make a comparison?
Well, that's... uhm... ahm... interestingEclipse24 said:If it makes you happy I listen metal, rock, soul and dance including turbo polka =)
Artists (in no particlar order) Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Seal, Elton John, J. S. Bach, W. A. Mozart, South Park Central, Weird Al Yankovich, Alcazar, Atomik Harmonik, Colonia, Crazy Frog, Dogma, Eric Prydz, Europe, Haiduci, Hampton the Hampster, Kylie Minougue, Las Ketchup, Ricky Martin, Shakira, Daniel Achilles, T2, Discohonk, Apocalyptica, Children of Bodom, Cradle of Filth, Hammerfall, Iron Maiden, Marilyn Manson, Metallica, Slipknot, Bob Marley, Willie Nelson, Jay-Z, Black Eyed Peas, Ludacris, MC Hammer, Chemical Brothers, Will Smith, Black Sabbath, Blink 182, Bon Jovi, Queen, The Doors, The Rolling Stones, Rafael (SSN), Lordi, Robbie Williams, Ich Troje, Daz Sampson, It United.
I play piano (classical, not rock academy) on which I can play things like Mozart aswell as Metallica's Nothing Else Matters, Doors' Riders on the Storms. I mix music using Traktor DJ Studio so I fvckin have my own style thank you for asking. As for the grammar I hope it's better. If it isn't than don't read it...
Eclipse24 said:The reason why I ask what should a common DJ listen to (I realize it's just a question of style) is because whatever I say everybody wonders why. If I say I listen metal it's - oh just a common metal?. If it's classical they think I'm gay. If it's techno and dance - they think I'm just trendy. SO. Maybe I haven't stated my question good but that's no reason to think I wanna listen what you listen...
I'll tell you what, AMOGing doesn't work like that. Mostly, because this is the internet, so we could care less about someone who tries to act above us and tell us to cool down.Eclipse24 said:I may be a newbie here but you're a bit too much pissed on everyone who asks a question...Not that I'm gonna leave this forum like that guy something-x-henry did but you should cool down you know that?
If you really care, I mostly listen to your same music, but does that make me a Don Juan? I think nobody knows what Pook or Mistery or Style or Gunwitch or Anti-Dump listen to, but does this make them less Don Juanish to our eyes? I don't think so.Eclipse24 said:******************
Now please (hope that "please" wasn't the problem) tell me what you listen to.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.