"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJ I need your help to lose virginity!

Alpheta

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Okay. So with this Virgin for half a year. Like her but she's BDP so I wanna dump but won't feel satisfied until I pump.

I stayed over a night for the first time around her place but I failed to sex. She resisted a lot but after I got the vibe she wanted it.

Anyways I Ate her out etc but didn't put it in.

I've arranged another meeting at her place in beginning November.

Here's the thing. It's about time I lost my V card.

What's more when I stayed over, she claims I didn't please her much and she didn't feel much etc lol. Hurts that ego man.

So just needed the DJs to give me some hard kick up the backside and to make sure I do the deed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jetleg

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Good advice from Ruler as always. also, never go down on a girl if she never done the same for you! you've satisfied her will, thats why you couldnt get it in.
i would also "help" her by putting her hands on your d***. tease her just like ruler said and then stop, it will make her begging you to f**ck her.
 

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Is she diagnosed BPD?

If so 99.999% chance she is NOT a virgin, and you are the beta male provider boyfriend while she's getting some on the side, sorry to be the one to say it mate but if you ask anyone with BPD experience they will tell you it's true.

If she's bpd and you want to smash, just get her drunk and make a move, that really is all there is to it. Get a text message consent type thing from her first though.

And oh yeah, don't even bother with any of this and get out now before it all goes down the rabbit hole.
 

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You need to get her drunk, beer won't do it. Either wine that is 12 degrees alcohol, or something stronger. Vodka will do it, wiskey as well, wiskey with cola. The two of you need to drink, and she must drink more, then you fvck her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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fastlife

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Lol this can't possibly backfire (if she's actually BPD and actually a virgin).

Ruler's advice is solid if you're sure this is something you want to do. Except I'd add that undressing her & maneuvering yourself over her during foreplay will expedite the process and help with last minute resistance. Plus if she's legit a virgin you'll have to do most of the heavy lifting & show dominance (most girls you can just take their hand, put it on your c0ck and, holding her hand and leaning in for a kiss, show her what you want her to do with it and they'll usually take it from there).
 
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