"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ I need your help to lose virginity!

Alpheta

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Okay. So with this Virgin for half a year. Like her but she's BDP so I wanna dump but won't feel satisfied until I pump.

I stayed over a night for the first time around her place but I failed to sex. She resisted a lot but after I got the vibe she wanted it.

Anyways I Ate her out etc but didn't put it in.

I've arranged another meeting at her place in beginning November.

Here's the thing. It's about time I lost my V card.

What's more when I stayed over, she claims I didn't please her much and she didn't feel much etc lol. Hurts that ego man.

So just needed the DJs to give me some hard kick up the backside and to make sure I do the deed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jetleg

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Good advice from Ruler as always. also, never go down on a girl if she never done the same for you! you've satisfied her will, thats why you couldnt get it in.
i would also "help" her by putting her hands on your d***. tease her just like ruler said and then stop, it will make her begging you to f**ck her.
 

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Is she diagnosed BPD?

If so 99.999% chance she is NOT a virgin, and you are the beta male provider boyfriend while she's getting some on the side, sorry to be the one to say it mate but if you ask anyone with BPD experience they will tell you it's true.

If she's bpd and you want to smash, just get her drunk and make a move, that really is all there is to it. Get a text message consent type thing from her first though.

And oh yeah, don't even bother with any of this and get out now before it all goes down the rabbit hole.
 

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You need to get her drunk, beer won't do it. Either wine that is 12 degrees alcohol, or something stronger. Vodka will do it, wiskey as well, wiskey with cola. The two of you need to drink, and she must drink more, then you fvck her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lol this can't possibly backfire (if she's actually BPD and actually a virgin).

Ruler's advice is solid if you're sure this is something you want to do. Except I'd add that undressing her & maneuvering yourself over her during foreplay will expedite the process and help with last minute resistance. Plus if she's legit a virgin you'll have to do most of the heavy lifting & show dominance (most girls you can just take their hand, put it on your c0ck and, holding her hand and leaning in for a kiss, show her what you want her to do with it and they'll usually take it from there).
 
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