"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ I need your help to lose virginity!

Alpheta

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Okay. So with this Virgin for half a year. Like her but she's BDP so I wanna dump but won't feel satisfied until I pump.

I stayed over a night for the first time around her place but I failed to sex. She resisted a lot but after I got the vibe she wanted it.

Anyways I Ate her out etc but didn't put it in.

I've arranged another meeting at her place in beginning November.

Here's the thing. It's about time I lost my V card.

What's more when I stayed over, she claims I didn't please her much and she didn't feel much etc lol. Hurts that ego man.

So just needed the DJs to give me some hard kick up the backside and to make sure I do the deed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jetleg

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Good advice from Ruler as always. also, never go down on a girl if she never done the same for you! you've satisfied her will, thats why you couldnt get it in.
i would also "help" her by putting her hands on your d***. tease her just like ruler said and then stop, it will make her begging you to f**ck her.
 

Infern0

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Is she diagnosed BPD?

If so 99.999% chance she is NOT a virgin, and you are the beta male provider boyfriend while she's getting some on the side, sorry to be the one to say it mate but if you ask anyone with BPD experience they will tell you it's true.

If she's bpd and you want to smash, just get her drunk and make a move, that really is all there is to it. Get a text message consent type thing from her first though.

And oh yeah, don't even bother with any of this and get out now before it all goes down the rabbit hole.
 

backseatjuan

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You need to get her drunk, beer won't do it. Either wine that is 12 degrees alcohol, or something stronger. Vodka will do it, wiskey as well, wiskey with cola. The two of you need to drink, and she must drink more, then you fvck her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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fastlife

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Lol this can't possibly backfire (if she's actually BPD and actually a virgin).

Ruler's advice is solid if you're sure this is something you want to do. Except I'd add that undressing her & maneuvering yourself over her during foreplay will expedite the process and help with last minute resistance. Plus if she's legit a virgin you'll have to do most of the heavy lifting & show dominance (most girls you can just take their hand, put it on your c0ck and, holding her hand and leaning in for a kiss, show her what you want her to do with it and they'll usually take it from there).
 
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