"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know if you are completely cold she would probably leave, so I know you mostly just have action dates or just do things don't talk much or let her talk more. I am trying to figure out how to go about it when she is going to say I don't talk much or why I won't go in relationship. Besides saying we are enjoying each others company right now lets just play it by ear. What else would you do over the course of time? I know to only see her once a week and sometimes make excuse blow her off as well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Twice a week is OK no more because then you're losing frame ie you're stopping doing the things you need to do to hang out with this chick.

I suggest you go and check out the mature man section obviously 45 year olds r going to have had more LTRs than 25 year olds

Woman r like weeds they ll take over if you let them. In my experience it's basically about three things

1. Give them experiences that stimulate their emotions - EG take him to a concert so they get that huge group vibe, chill out on a Sunday morning and read the paper to each other so you get that togetherness vibe, take her to play sports or an amusement park or hard out dancing so you get those endorphins going. Pick the occasional fight with her when she's doing annoying s*** most times of course when she's playing up your default is just to remove attention.

2. Give her pampering sensuality and the best fvcking she s ever known.

3. The rest is about maintaining frame when she s*** tests you. And there's plenty of that in the mature man section if you look. Motu s posts are good. Also Google Dave from Hawaii on chateau heartiste

Damn this is good advice I wish I'd known it 10 years ago
 
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And just in case you missed the whole theme of sosuave. Don't catch oneitis too soon. Until you ve been going out for 3 to 4 months and she's asked to be exclusive it all means nothing and she could disappear in a heartbeat
 
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Okay I understand BUT, I don't want to date women anymore after this last girl ****ed me over, I just want to have **** buddies and hangout I DO NOT want to spend money on women. Last girl was cool she paid her way and made me dinner etc... I want stuff like that. So, what would I need to do to just have girls chill and ****?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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