"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ Church (come here to confess)

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------------๑۞๑,¸¸,ø¤º°`°๑۩ DJ CHURCH ๑۩ ,¸¸,ø¤º°`°๑۞๑------------

To be humbly ashamed is to be plunged in the cleansing bath of truth. -- George MacDonald

Repent for your sins!

Skipping the Gym?
Eating too many Burgers?
Being too nice?
Did not approach a girl you like?
Got back with an ex?
Developing Oneitus?

Fess up!! Fess up now and let their be Judgement from the Elder DJ's
Let them guide you back on to the Path of the Don Juan!


------------๑۞๑,¸¸,ø¤º°`°๑۩ DJ CHURCH ๑۩ ,¸¸,ø¤º°`°๑۞๑------------

All jokes aside.. I think this thread will be helpful if you've made a small mistake and u don't feel like making an entire thread about it. Or if you're confused about something, or you just need to vent out some frustrations.

Probably need some "preachers" too who would like to discuss topics in the DJ Bible. Any takers?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lmao at "DJ Church". You guys are too much.
 

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Banged a chick that had a boyfriend & went NC on her.

God forgive me ..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ church sounds convincing, since there's quite a few preachers here. Judgment won't be a problem, but it's the penance I'm curious about! Think about it, it's the whole sin concept in inversion. ;-)
 

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I broke going ghost with an ex one-itis after about a year and a half. How? Snapchat. I've basically deleted the app and I'm now 10-something days ghost. The only thing I learned was that my AFC days had really, really, strong emotions for this girl and this proved that I still have some for her even today. Crazy how that works.
 

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I'm not making enough money. I need my own place and my own car. I also need money to fix my teeth.
 

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Forced myself to see at a two faced, manipulating, attention wh0re as different. Ignored her blaring red flags and boring personality, all because she was my first love/oneitius, and doesn't SEEM to be as wh0re acting as the other girls I know.

Put too much worry into gaming a narcissist that turned out to be an attention wh0re. All because my friend wanted to f**k her, and was convinced she was in love with me.
 

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Frayzer said:
I broke going ghost with an ex one-itis after about a year and a half. How? Snapchat. I've basically deleted the app and I'm now 10-something days ghost. The only thing I learned was that my AFC days had really, really, strong emotions for this girl and this proved that I still have some for her even today. Crazy how that works.

A year and a half.. and still some? damn dude
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go ahead disapprove my rep. Forgive me father for I have sinned...

Did not approach a girl you like?---
Well she was a stranger, just saw a f*ckable chick @ the liquor store today & didn't approach. I got a nice smile from her too....oh well she's probably a drunk.

Got back with an ex/developing oneitus?------Yeah combo deal here, dumped a broad this past summer then took her back. IDGAF...
 

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Starwolf said:
A year and a half.. and still some? damn dude
Yeah... I think after 4-5 snaps in I just thought to myself: "I still have feelings for this girl..." Then she stopped responding which was fine because I was going to stop anyway. It's definitely not as extreme as back then though, pretty sure I would have taken a bullet for her or something ridiculous.
 

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This is great. I cant wait to participate. We are going to need my own thread for mine.
 

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Sinners all!

These guys aren't lost as they recognize their sins. It's the poor blue pill slob who is lost in his transgressions, i.e. 99% of men.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Frayzer said:
I broke going ghost with an ex one-itis after about a year and a half. How? Snapchat. I've basically deleted the app and I'm now 10-something days ghost. The only thing I learned was that my AFC days had really, really, strong emotions for this girl and this proved that I still have some for her even today. Crazy how that works.
I'm with ya on this one. I haven;t broken NC in awhile now, 8 months? I lost count. Was thinking about breaking it the other day but then I brushed it off. It's easier now than it was back then.
 

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Father, I have sinned. I looked at my buddy's 22 yo daughter and had unclean thoughts about her and a razor. Father please ask her not to wear those tights again.
 

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time for me to confess too!

I have hit Rock Bottom guys!

No Friends, No GF, No Plates

I never had any friends.. the reason why i went from gf to gf to plate..but i Dumped them all. they were as needy and frustrated as me! I saw myself in each one of them.. Scared to be alone..and settling for less.
I would have fit in nicely as a frustrated Beta male if i put up with their bad behavior.. but i know it would be only for some low quality pvssy.. pathetic

But I took the plunge and Loneliness has finally come knocking on the door. Greeted him and told him to make himself at home While i work on my mind and body. Hopefully for a better future.

- Embracing the Lone wolf life... For now -
 

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Starwolf said:
time for me to confess too!

I have hit Rock Bottom guys!

No Friends, No GF, No Plates

I never had any friends.. the reason why i went from gf to gf to plate..but i Dumped them all. they were as needy and frustrated as me! I saw myself in each one of them.. Scared to be alone..and settling for less.
I would have fit in nicely as a frustrated Beta male if i put up with their bad behavior.. but i know it would be only for some low quality pvssy.. pathetic

But I took the plunge and Loneliness has finally come knocking on the door. Greeted him and told him to make himself at home While i work on my mind and body. Hopefully for a better future.

- Embracing the Lone wolf life... For now -
Social conditioning man... That's rough. Just know that now that you have SS you'll always have guys either just like you or that were you to get some insight from.

Anyway, I've sinned again today. I was walking to out of a store and saw this girl walking as I was exiting and she was wearing work clothes. She must have seen me from a distance because she started to look down and to the side when I started to make eye contact with her as we got closer. We walked by each other and I smiled and she smiled back while looking down to the side, her face was kind of red too. She was/is definitely interested and she was kind of cute too and seemed a little submissive just from that encounter.

I need to be more on guard when a girl drops heavy indicators of interest like that because this honestly threw me off guard.
 

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With the last one; I ignored red flags. I dated a stage 5 clinger BPD head case. But I'm so far into No Contact (almost 4 months) that I've somewhat redemmed myself and my eyes are open. The experience hurt like hell, but I'm grateful that it happened. Time to start anew with another chick. Preferably one that can cook.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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