"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dj Challenge: High School

SlyD4rK

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Originally posted by Random Hero
I'm in summer school right now but no good looking girls here lol.

doesnt matter if they are all ugly, practise some techniques...just move on when you know you have their attraction

just my 2 cents


and i alrady said im in, but ill help with the challenge too, PM if necasscary
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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count me in..
i just graduated from high-school. my college starts on 1st of august. can i still join? pm if you need any details
 

SlyD4rK

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im going to be helping smooth make the new " DJ Boot Camp: Highschool"

my AIM is shadysbk9

I would ask a mod to sticky this, but we are going to make a new thread soon. so keep letting us know if you"in" or not
 

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Originally posted by SlyD4rK
doesnt matter if they are all ugly, practise some techniques...just move on when you know you have their attraction

just my 2 cents


and i alrady said im in, but ill help with the challenge too, PM if necasscary
heh I remember when I first came to this site I started trying to do soem techniques on alot of girls even ugly ones then I started hearing tons of rumors about me liking all these different girls and I was like wth
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nexxus

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i'm in, it will be good for me cuz i'm moving into 10th grade next year (junior/ year11 UK system, i think year 5 european system) and into a new highschool and even though i'm better than average i could sure be much better

anyways PM me or send an email to

[email protected]
same email for msn
I don't have AIM but i might bother to get it if it's neccessary thx

oh btw my school starts either end of august or beginning of september... not sure yet...
 

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Count me in. Last year I came into school guns ablazin', but then I let too many opportunities slip away. This will keep my game sharp.

But I assume most of the guys here already have the basics down? Let's make this a hard boot camp/competition. Not just eye contact/hellos.
 

SlyD4rK

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i think'll we will have it start off with hellos/eye-contact, just for the first week...i mean we arent skimping on making this...we are talking like 20 hellos a day MIN. (for the first week) this is just to improve your overall confidence---some people may have this down already---but i know i don't have this down yet...and being on a strict deadline like this will help all of us improve...if your still not sure thats its not hard enough, then check the orginal bootcamp and look how hard that is, we are gonna up the lvl (i hope)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We have the whole year. No need to be asking girls on dates in week 2.
 

08aisaac

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So my schol starts soon. Do we have enough people to start. I think maybe we should start organizing and like set goals and swap msn or whatever. Who's on the executive board?
if there is one.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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barra088

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yeah ive been planning on committing to this so im definetly in. i start school august 2nd so yeah this should be interesting.
 

08aisaac

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okay well I am joining the group soniq_red. I think this should be the group since it is already created.
My MSN name is [email protected]
My yahoo name is aisaac2008
I will add whoever and whatnot. lol

sorry I mean my MSN is [email protected]
My regular email is [email protected]
 
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08aisaac

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Hey i don't think the group is working. lol anyone else having problems?
 

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Yeah, it says it was cancelled or something. Just start a new group using something other than MSN.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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