Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dj Challenge: High School

SlyD4rK

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Originally posted by Random Hero
I'm in summer school right now but no good looking girls here lol.

doesnt matter if they are all ugly, practise some techniques...just move on when you know you have their attraction

just my 2 cents


and i alrady said im in, but ill help with the challenge too, PM if necasscary
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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count me in..
i just graduated from high-school. my college starts on 1st of august. can i still join? pm if you need any details
 

SlyD4rK

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im going to be helping smooth make the new " DJ Boot Camp: Highschool"

my AIM is shadysbk9

I would ask a mod to sticky this, but we are going to make a new thread soon. so keep letting us know if you"in" or not
 

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Originally posted by SlyD4rK
doesnt matter if they are all ugly, practise some techniques...just move on when you know you have their attraction

just my 2 cents


and i alrady said im in, but ill help with the challenge too, PM if necasscary
heh I remember when I first came to this site I started trying to do soem techniques on alot of girls even ugly ones then I started hearing tons of rumors about me liking all these different girls and I was like wth
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nexxus

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i'm in, it will be good for me cuz i'm moving into 10th grade next year (junior/ year11 UK system, i think year 5 european system) and into a new highschool and even though i'm better than average i could sure be much better

anyways PM me or send an email to

[email protected]
same email for msn
I don't have AIM but i might bother to get it if it's neccessary thx

oh btw my school starts either end of august or beginning of september... not sure yet...
 

StrangeButTrue

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Count me in. Last year I came into school guns ablazin', but then I let too many opportunities slip away. This will keep my game sharp.

But I assume most of the guys here already have the basics down? Let's make this a hard boot camp/competition. Not just eye contact/hellos.
 

SlyD4rK

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i think'll we will have it start off with hellos/eye-contact, just for the first week...i mean we arent skimping on making this...we are talking like 20 hellos a day MIN. (for the first week) this is just to improve your overall confidence---some people may have this down already---but i know i don't have this down yet...and being on a strict deadline like this will help all of us improve...if your still not sure thats its not hard enough, then check the orginal bootcamp and look how hard that is, we are gonna up the lvl (i hope)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We have the whole year. No need to be asking girls on dates in week 2.
 

08aisaac

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So my schol starts soon. Do we have enough people to start. I think maybe we should start organizing and like set goals and swap msn or whatever. Who's on the executive board?
if there is one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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barra088

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yeah ive been planning on committing to this so im definetly in. i start school august 2nd so yeah this should be interesting.
 

08aisaac

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okay well I am joining the group soniq_red. I think this should be the group since it is already created.
My MSN name is [email protected]
My yahoo name is aisaac2008
I will add whoever and whatnot. lol

sorry I mean my MSN is [email protected]
My regular email is [email protected]
 
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08aisaac

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Hey i don't think the group is working. lol anyone else having problems?
 

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Yeah, it says it was cancelled or something. Just start a new group using something other than MSN.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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