"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dj Challenge: High School

SlyD4rK

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Originally posted by Random Hero
I'm in summer school right now but no good looking girls here lol.

doesnt matter if they are all ugly, practise some techniques...just move on when you know you have their attraction

just my 2 cents


and i alrady said im in, but ill help with the challenge too, PM if necasscary
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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count me in..
i just graduated from high-school. my college starts on 1st of august. can i still join? pm if you need any details
 

SlyD4rK

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im going to be helping smooth make the new " DJ Boot Camp: Highschool"

my AIM is shadysbk9

I would ask a mod to sticky this, but we are going to make a new thread soon. so keep letting us know if you"in" or not
 

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Originally posted by SlyD4rK
doesnt matter if they are all ugly, practise some techniques...just move on when you know you have their attraction

just my 2 cents


and i alrady said im in, but ill help with the challenge too, PM if necasscary
heh I remember when I first came to this site I started trying to do soem techniques on alot of girls even ugly ones then I started hearing tons of rumors about me liking all these different girls and I was like wth
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nexxus

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i'm in, it will be good for me cuz i'm moving into 10th grade next year (junior/ year11 UK system, i think year 5 european system) and into a new highschool and even though i'm better than average i could sure be much better

anyways PM me or send an email to

[email protected]
same email for msn
I don't have AIM but i might bother to get it if it's neccessary thx

oh btw my school starts either end of august or beginning of september... not sure yet...
 

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Count me in. Last year I came into school guns ablazin', but then I let too many opportunities slip away. This will keep my game sharp.

But I assume most of the guys here already have the basics down? Let's make this a hard boot camp/competition. Not just eye contact/hellos.
 

SlyD4rK

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i think'll we will have it start off with hellos/eye-contact, just for the first week...i mean we arent skimping on making this...we are talking like 20 hellos a day MIN. (for the first week) this is just to improve your overall confidence---some people may have this down already---but i know i don't have this down yet...and being on a strict deadline like this will help all of us improve...if your still not sure thats its not hard enough, then check the orginal bootcamp and look how hard that is, we are gonna up the lvl (i hope)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We have the whole year. No need to be asking girls on dates in week 2.
 

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So my schol starts soon. Do we have enough people to start. I think maybe we should start organizing and like set goals and swap msn or whatever. Who's on the executive board?
if there is one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yeah ive been planning on committing to this so im definetly in. i start school august 2nd so yeah this should be interesting.
 

08aisaac

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okay well I am joining the group soniq_red. I think this should be the group since it is already created.
My MSN name is [email protected]
My yahoo name is aisaac2008
I will add whoever and whatnot. lol

sorry I mean my MSN is [email protected]
My regular email is [email protected]
 
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08aisaac

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Hey i don't think the group is working. lol anyone else having problems?
 

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Yeah, it says it was cancelled or something. Just start a new group using something other than MSN.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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