"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dj Bootcamp: Week One

RokyRoc

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Finished boys. I had a slow start but after the first 10 it became second nature. What I did to force myself to go out and talk to people was to take the subway to a random stop and then get off and walk back to my place. I had to approach people for directions and just said hi to some cute girls.

I found that some people didnt make eye contact but I still said hi when they were within hearing range and they said hi back, usually with a smile. Ready for week 2!!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rushing dude 123

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ok guys field reports in this is the last day. I am going to move all of the people who completed to week 2 thread, which i will make in a second. Congradulations on all those who made it.

ps. if u have not done them all yet and u still have 5 hours left...it is still not to late.
 

Waking Up

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Finished the 50 hi's. It wasn't too bad after a while you just become immune to it. All complete and ready for week 2.
 

azrael

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week one done

week one done. the eye contact part was easy,even thought most people wont hold EC for too long, i did struggle saying hi to random people so I'll continue to do so every now and then.looking forward for week two:up:
 

Cry For Love

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completed it. i know you wanted a report on day 6 haha, but i was too wimped out to make it so did it today. funny thing is, first 25 his were awkward and difficult! possible reasons: i said too quietly, didnt say early enough(they didnt have enough time to react before i went past them), but after that it was smooth sailing. Interestingly it seems that foreign tourists were more open to greet back than locals.
as others said, the anxiety really decreased by a magnitude after 30~ greets and by the time i got to around 60 there was barely any left.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EdwardGrey

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Ive been lurking on this site for a while now , I caught this bootcamp on Mon. nite so me and my roommate ( a DJ already ) take a trip to Soho to get the 50 Hi's ... i skipped the eye contact part because Im pretty good at that. It was pretty hard at first because my friend is so foward I would freeze up when he would say hi to somebody I was about to say hi too ... I got thru about 13 on Tues. , went back to soho and also visited queens to view the Basketbal game on Wed. and got another 21 by myself... finished it on thurs. night in washington hieghts saying hi to all the beautiful spanish women that were out.:flowers: lol

im ready for week 2 !!
 

rushing dude 123

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wow i am really suprised the names i least expected to go out went out, but that is fine.
 

doback

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Done, finished before the deadline, just have been to busy to hit the forums
 
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