"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dj Bootcamp: Week One

RokyRoc

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Finished boys. I had a slow start but after the first 10 it became second nature. What I did to force myself to go out and talk to people was to take the subway to a random stop and then get off and walk back to my place. I had to approach people for directions and just said hi to some cute girls.

I found that some people didnt make eye contact but I still said hi when they were within hearing range and they said hi back, usually with a smile. Ready for week 2!!

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rushing dude 123

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ok guys field reports in this is the last day. I am going to move all of the people who completed to week 2 thread, which i will make in a second. Congradulations on all those who made it.

ps. if u have not done them all yet and u still have 5 hours left...it is still not to late.
 

Waking Up

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Finished the 50 hi's. It wasn't too bad after a while you just become immune to it. All complete and ready for week 2.
 

azrael

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week one done

week one done. the eye contact part was easy,even thought most people wont hold EC for too long, i did struggle saying hi to random people so I'll continue to do so every now and then.looking forward for week two:up:
 

Cry For Love

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completed it. i know you wanted a report on day 6 haha, but i was too wimped out to make it so did it today. funny thing is, first 25 his were awkward and difficult! possible reasons: i said too quietly, didnt say early enough(they didnt have enough time to react before i went past them), but after that it was smooth sailing. Interestingly it seems that foreign tourists were more open to greet back than locals.
as others said, the anxiety really decreased by a magnitude after 30~ greets and by the time i got to around 60 there was barely any left.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EdwardGrey

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Ive been lurking on this site for a while now , I caught this bootcamp on Mon. nite so me and my roommate ( a DJ already ) take a trip to Soho to get the 50 Hi's ... i skipped the eye contact part because Im pretty good at that. It was pretty hard at first because my friend is so foward I would freeze up when he would say hi to somebody I was about to say hi too ... I got thru about 13 on Tues. , went back to soho and also visited queens to view the Basketbal game on Wed. and got another 21 by myself... finished it on thurs. night in washington hieghts saying hi to all the beautiful spanish women that were out.:flowers: lol

im ready for week 2 !!
 

rushing dude 123

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wow i am really suprised the names i least expected to go out went out, but that is fine.
 

doback

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Done, finished before the deadline, just have been to busy to hit the forums
 
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