"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dj Bootcamp: Week One

RokyRoc

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Finished boys. I had a slow start but after the first 10 it became second nature. What I did to force myself to go out and talk to people was to take the subway to a random stop and then get off and walk back to my place. I had to approach people for directions and just said hi to some cute girls.

I found that some people didnt make eye contact but I still said hi when they were within hearing range and they said hi back, usually with a smile. Ready for week 2!!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rushing dude 123

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ok guys field reports in this is the last day. I am going to move all of the people who completed to week 2 thread, which i will make in a second. Congradulations on all those who made it.

ps. if u have not done them all yet and u still have 5 hours left...it is still not to late.
 

Waking Up

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Finished the 50 hi's. It wasn't too bad after a while you just become immune to it. All complete and ready for week 2.
 

azrael

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week one done

week one done. the eye contact part was easy,even thought most people wont hold EC for too long, i did struggle saying hi to random people so I'll continue to do so every now and then.looking forward for week two:up:
 

Cry For Love

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completed it. i know you wanted a report on day 6 haha, but i was too wimped out to make it so did it today. funny thing is, first 25 his were awkward and difficult! possible reasons: i said too quietly, didnt say early enough(they didnt have enough time to react before i went past them), but after that it was smooth sailing. Interestingly it seems that foreign tourists were more open to greet back than locals.
as others said, the anxiety really decreased by a magnitude after 30~ greets and by the time i got to around 60 there was barely any left.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EdwardGrey

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Ive been lurking on this site for a while now , I caught this bootcamp on Mon. nite so me and my roommate ( a DJ already ) take a trip to Soho to get the 50 Hi's ... i skipped the eye contact part because Im pretty good at that. It was pretty hard at first because my friend is so foward I would freeze up when he would say hi to somebody I was about to say hi too ... I got thru about 13 on Tues. , went back to soho and also visited queens to view the Basketbal game on Wed. and got another 21 by myself... finished it on thurs. night in washington hieghts saying hi to all the beautiful spanish women that were out.:flowers: lol

im ready for week 2 !!
 

rushing dude 123

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wow i am really suprised the names i least expected to go out went out, but that is fine.
 

doback

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Done, finished before the deadline, just have been to busy to hit the forums
 
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