Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJ Boot Camp - Anyone else want to try it with me

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ItWasntMe

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Wasn't there some thing where you could use yahoo and msn at the same time? I'm just making sure that you can use msn so that we can all get together or w/e and talk whenever.
 

Touchout

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Ok I guess I'll join. The thing is that I hate going to the mall or whatever by myself and that's why I quit in the past but I'll try it again.

I don't have MSN messenger (or any type of IM thing, I just dont do that I think it's a waste of time) but I will continue to update with my progress.
 

navyseal2101

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Are we all using msn messenger, b/c i need to dl it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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elmnick

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I think we need to have a definate start day, and we should be fairly strict on doing it within the week,
I'll leave that to ItWasn'tMe, as starter of the thread
 

navyseal2101

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Well I got 12 Hi's. 1 convo. with the lady that sold me condoms, I tried to make it less awkward by having a conversation with her, and I dont feel awkward saying hi to random people anymore. 38 to go...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ItWasntMe

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Yeah I was going to say that you can start now if you wish but the official start date will be Thursday. Navy you should download msn messenger if you can. Touch and Magic I'll add you to the list. Lost basically we're all going to follow the boot camp program and post our results min. once a week and just support each other on our path to being top DJ's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bling

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There's a PDF of the Boot Camp in the DJ Bible, but if you guys want to see others doing their own bootcamps here's the links in the archives.

Course Outline:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=12802
Week 1:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13538
Week 2:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13080
Week 3:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9824
Week 4:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=12365
Week 5:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9694
Week 6:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9695
Week 7:
Week 8:


Found 6 in the way back, so it sounds like only a few people make it that far... :cool:
 

ElStud

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I don't know... Boot Camp seems a little long for me. I'm just trying to get numbers and stuff. I'm way past a lot of this stuff [Like conversation, and confidence] myself.
 

Nygard

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I'll sign up, sounds like i'll get a lot of fun out of it,also, i'm answering a challenge from my good freind GaryUranga
 

Touchout

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ElStud said:
I don't know... Boot Camp seems a little long for me. I'm just trying to get numbers and stuff. I'm way past a lot of this stuff [Like conversation, and confidence] myself.
Elstud, I don't want to brag but I'm far past you in "this stuff" but I'm still doing this, I recommend you do it do, by the time you get to like week 3 and 4 it's all about getting numbers and setting up dates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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