"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Boot Camp - Anyone else want to try it with me

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ItWasntMe

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Wasn't there some thing where you could use yahoo and msn at the same time? I'm just making sure that you can use msn so that we can all get together or w/e and talk whenever.
 

Touchout

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Ok I guess I'll join. The thing is that I hate going to the mall or whatever by myself and that's why I quit in the past but I'll try it again.

I don't have MSN messenger (or any type of IM thing, I just dont do that I think it's a waste of time) but I will continue to update with my progress.
 

navyseal2101

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Are we all using msn messenger, b/c i need to dl it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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elmnick

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I think we need to have a definate start day, and we should be fairly strict on doing it within the week,
I'll leave that to ItWasn'tMe, as starter of the thread
 

navyseal2101

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Well I got 12 Hi's. 1 convo. with the lady that sold me condoms, I tried to make it less awkward by having a conversation with her, and I dont feel awkward saying hi to random people anymore. 38 to go...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ItWasntMe

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Yeah I was going to say that you can start now if you wish but the official start date will be Thursday. Navy you should download msn messenger if you can. Touch and Magic I'll add you to the list. Lost basically we're all going to follow the boot camp program and post our results min. once a week and just support each other on our path to being top DJ's.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bling

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There's a PDF of the Boot Camp in the DJ Bible, but if you guys want to see others doing their own bootcamps here's the links in the archives.

Course Outline:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=12802
Week 1:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13538
Week 2:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13080
Week 3:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9824
Week 4:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=12365
Week 5:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9694
Week 6:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9695
Week 7:
Week 8:


Found 6 in the way back, so it sounds like only a few people make it that far... :cool:
 

ElStud

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I don't know... Boot Camp seems a little long for me. I'm just trying to get numbers and stuff. I'm way past a lot of this stuff [Like conversation, and confidence] myself.
 

Nygard

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I'll sign up, sounds like i'll get a lot of fun out of it,also, i'm answering a challenge from my good freind GaryUranga
 

Touchout

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ElStud said:
I don't know... Boot Camp seems a little long for me. I'm just trying to get numbers and stuff. I'm way past a lot of this stuff [Like conversation, and confidence] myself.
Elstud, I don't want to brag but I'm far past you in "this stuff" but I'm still doing this, I recommend you do it do, by the time you get to like week 3 and 4 it's all about getting numbers and setting up dates.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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