"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Boot Camp - Anyone else want to try it with me

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ItWasntMe

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Wasn't there some thing where you could use yahoo and msn at the same time? I'm just making sure that you can use msn so that we can all get together or w/e and talk whenever.
 

Touchout

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Ok I guess I'll join. The thing is that I hate going to the mall or whatever by myself and that's why I quit in the past but I'll try it again.

I don't have MSN messenger (or any type of IM thing, I just dont do that I think it's a waste of time) but I will continue to update with my progress.
 

navyseal2101

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Are we all using msn messenger, b/c i need to dl it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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elmnick

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I think we need to have a definate start day, and we should be fairly strict on doing it within the week,
I'll leave that to ItWasn'tMe, as starter of the thread
 

navyseal2101

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Well I got 12 Hi's. 1 convo. with the lady that sold me condoms, I tried to make it less awkward by having a conversation with her, and I dont feel awkward saying hi to random people anymore. 38 to go...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ItWasntMe

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Yeah I was going to say that you can start now if you wish but the official start date will be Thursday. Navy you should download msn messenger if you can. Touch and Magic I'll add you to the list. Lost basically we're all going to follow the boot camp program and post our results min. once a week and just support each other on our path to being top DJ's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bling

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There's a PDF of the Boot Camp in the DJ Bible, but if you guys want to see others doing their own bootcamps here's the links in the archives.

Course Outline:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=12802
Week 1:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13538
Week 2:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13080
Week 3:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9824
Week 4:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=12365
Week 5:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9694
Week 6:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=9695
Week 7:
Week 8:


Found 6 in the way back, so it sounds like only a few people make it that far... :cool:
 

ElStud

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I don't know... Boot Camp seems a little long for me. I'm just trying to get numbers and stuff. I'm way past a lot of this stuff [Like conversation, and confidence] myself.
 

Nygard

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I'll sign up, sounds like i'll get a lot of fun out of it,also, i'm answering a challenge from my good freind GaryUranga
 

Touchout

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ElStud said:
I don't know... Boot Camp seems a little long for me. I'm just trying to get numbers and stuff. I'm way past a lot of this stuff [Like conversation, and confidence] myself.
Elstud, I don't want to brag but I'm far past you in "this stuff" but I'm still doing this, I recommend you do it do, by the time you get to like week 3 and 4 it's all about getting numbers and setting up dates.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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