"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

DJ Bible Study

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
Who's in?

Once a week we read, discuss and breakdown a section of the DJ Bible.

I was thinking we could start with Pook's stuff, then branch out, get a good base going. Either that or we swtich off between Pook, Anti-Dump, and the rest.

Usually, the best days for this kind of stuff would be Tuesdays or Wednesdays. So maybe every Tuesdays 5pm Pacific time we start.

What's your guy's thoughts on this? Suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
for the sake of getting people to ****ing read the DJ Bible i would wholeheartedly do this
 

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
Agreed, and I'm one of those people. It can seem overwhelming, kind of like that other bible, but I think it could handled, one section at a time.

Hopefully some of you old crusty vets would be involved as well. Nothing wrong with reading something a second time, may pick up on a few things you missed the first time around. Plus, with more experience under your belt, you may have a different interpretation this time as well.
 

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
Well, not very much response to this idea. That's okay, I may be doing this one on my own. I guess it will be like an online journal. My DJ Bible Journey. :)

I'm going to be taking it slow and steady. In the over nine months since I've been on here I've probably spent a total of an hour reading the DJ Bible, and most of it was just skimming. So this time, I'm going to take it apart piece by piece, and actually read it, and study it. I'm going to do my best to be open, and take an objective approach to it. I will not take it as fact necessarily, but more or less try to understand where the author was coming from, and understand that it's his opinion and from his own experience, and then take it from there. I will see how and if I can apply this knowledge to my own life.

During my reading I'm going to be asking myself questions. One main question in particular:

How can I relate this to past and current experiences, and how can apply it to current and future experiences?

I'm going to begin with Pook's Fifteen Lessons. The first week, this week, I'm going to study lessons 1 through 5.

Next Tuesday I will share what I have learned.
 

evausos

New Member
Joined
Jan 17, 2014
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
I am down for this

How will the study sessions work?

We all read the same sections and discuss it every week?

Let's make it more organized before it turns into some jumbled mess

But yeah this seems like a legit idea, im in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
evausos said:
I am down for this

How will the study sessions work?

We all read the same sections and discuss it every week?

Let's make it more organized before it turns into some jumbled mess

But yeah this seems like a legit idea, im in.
That's pretty much it, we read a section at a time, then we go over it.

That's it.

If you have any ideas to make it less 'jumbled', I'm all ears.

A questionnaire would be nice, but I'm relatively new to the DJ Bible so I'll be shooting from the hip, which shouldn't be a problem ;)

Other than that, I'll be making a post every Tuesday. And we'll discuss the current section.

Sound good? Otherwise, if you think there's a better way, let me know.
 

PeasantPlayer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2013
Messages
3,068
Reaction score
946
Can someone post a link of the DJ bible? And what does HB and some of these other abbreviations mean?
 

Mr Wright

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2010
Messages
980
Reaction score
243
Location
London, UK
I can see why you want to do this but you guys need to quit the mental masturbation , walk outside and meet some women. Probably because it's easier to pretend you're doing something rather than actually doing something that might hurt your ego.

If you spent one hour a day going out and talking to women, you will learn twice as much, twice as fast. Then come back and "study the bible" :up:
 

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
Mr Wright said:
I can see why you want to do this but you guys need to quit the mental masturbation , walk outside and meet some women. Probably because it's easier to pretend you're doing something rather than actually doing something that might hurt your ego.

If you spent one hour a day going out and talking to women, you will learn twice as much, twice as fast. Then come back and "study the bible" :up:
Wait, so you're saying we should go out and actually meet women?? Hold on while I think about this...

Okay, so you're saying we should go out and actually meet women?? Have I understood this correctly?

Oh my god bro, you're a fvcking genius!! How did you ever come up with something like that??

I wish you were around 25 years ago when I started liking chicks, you would have been the solution to all my problems.


Mr Wright, I realize you're obviously the big daddy mac when it comes to girls, but hey, feel free to join this little study session. You know, when you have time from all that bangin you're obviously doing. We could use a guy that knows all of the answers and has everything figured out.

But hey, for the sake of the rest of us, would it be possible to just have an open mind, and possibly try to learn something new? If, you know, that's possible. Hopefully it wouldn't interfere with all of that knowledge you already have up in that overly large, chick magnet, brain of yours.

If that's the case, then feel free, come join in.

PeasantPlayer said:
Can someone post a link of the DJ bible? And what does HB and some of these other abbreviations mean?
Here's the fifteen lessons: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150

1 through 5 is what we're reading this week.
 

Mr Wright

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2010
Messages
980
Reaction score
243
Location
London, UK
Actually what the hell, why not this could be useful if it's integrated with going out. Let's shoot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
That's the spirit :up:
 

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
JohnChops said:
i can always read more, whats the first assignment phuckers
Welcome.
 

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
i think you should pick one post a week, and we should just have a discussion thread on that post and what we took from it.


i had this deal where i read something out the DJ bible everyday for like 4 years. Even today when I am dealing with my wife a lot of the stuff that pops in my head, isn't from this forum it's from the DJ bible.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Peaks&Valleys

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2013
Messages
1,956
Reaction score
355
*Reminder*

DJ Bible Study
Next Tuesday 1/28 at 5pm PST
We will be discussing the first 5 lessons of Pook's "15 Lessons". If you can't make it right on time, that's okay, get in when you can.

Excerpts from this week's reading:

“Foresight teaches gently; error teaches brutally”
“Rejection is better than Regret”
"Friendship- Abandon all hope ye who enter!"
“Judge by actions, not by words.”
“Patience is the refined sense of confidence.”
“Trust the gut.”

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150

For those that wish to be involved, please read up and have questions and thoughts ready for discussion.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,799
Reaction score
10,030
Peaks&Valleys said:
Wait, so you're saying we should go out and actually meet women?? Hold on while I think about this...

Okay, so you're saying we should go out and actually meet women?? Have I understood this correctly?
Actually go out and meet women? Who does he think we are - Supermen?

I might be down for the study group as long as the reading assignments are light. :)
 

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
You picked an interesting first one. I would have picked Kill that Desperation that's my fav post.

You picked the one post of Pooks that I have a bunch of issues with. This will be interesting
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top