"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJ awards?
- Thread starter Dustin
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Docs
Banned
Instead of the Best Tip Giver, how about using something like The Top 25 Recommended Best Tip Givers.
It's about recommendation, not picking.
So put out a thread asking 'Top 25 Tip Giver Recommendation thread.'
The topic should state that you can recommend anyone (multiple if they like) of posters that they feel are good at giving tips. People can also concur on how someone recommended 'Pook', for now I get into the next point....
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A poll is created after about 2 weeks of the thread running and it will include 25 of the most recommended posters. That is why allowing multiple recommendations per post, and concurness works.
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Fire away!
Edit: I better be recommended!!! lol.
Edit2: Crap, only 10 slots per poll.
Just let the thread run for a month and once its over, post the results in a new thread with a date of the findings. THen run another in 6 months/year
Docs
Banned
Basically. I'll look on the forum and see a topic named...
"Recommendations for 25 Best Tip Givers"
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You can post anyone you like, post multiple names please! You can also vote that a particular user is good. Only one vote is counted for each person per poster, so you can vote only once for one person, but you can vote for as many people as you wish.
This will run until Feburary 28th, when the top 25 best tip givers will be posted in a alternate thread for your viewing pleasure.
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OR
Topic title:
"Vote for the best ______"
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Rules:
One vote per nomination per poster. Unlimited nominations allowed. Will run for two months (March 30th).
Pick one or more people that fit the catagories
.The best tip givers:
The worst newbies:
The more funny trolls:
etc..
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Be sure to ask a mod (paradox/Rollo/Diablo) to get the thread stickied
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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Docs
Banned
Ouch, I can't qualify for that because I don't teach people how to not get girls/rid of them. I write articles on interaction between yourself and the girl and articles that involve self-improvement. (so I'm the next Pook successor! lol)Originally posted by Bling
The Non-Juans: Dustin and Docs
AC/DC, Franciso (sorry about poor spelling), Survivor (saw a recent post), Rollo Tollisio (spelling..), Smooth Player056, Sapiens, Desdinova, Deep Dish, Non Juan (lol), frivious (spelling...), So many more posters that write good stuff. I'll let you nominate me, because I can't cheat.
Edit: And that is why you let people suggest posters instead of making a "that's all I know" list.
mroriginal2
Don Juan
sosuave award=
Dj of the year award=
Female Dj of the year award=
Mature Dj of the year award=
highschool Dj of the year award=
Health and fitness award=
moderator of the year award=
troll of the year award=
PUA of the year award=
best tipper of the year award=
worst tipper of the year award=
worst newbie of the year award=
best newbie of the year award=
Funniest member of the year award=
most interesting member of the year award=
most liked member of the year award=
most hated member of the year award=
gayest member of the year award=
AFC of the year award=
most annoying member of the year award=
stupidest member of the year award=
smartest member of the year award=
best user name of the year award=
but the year just started, wait till december.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mroriginal2
Don Juan
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
this seems like a fun idea
sosuave award= sosuave.com
Dj of the year award= Senor Fingers
Female Dj of the year award= penkitten
Mature Dj of the year award= Giovanni Casanova
highschool Dj of the year award= AC/DC
moderator of the year award=
troll of the year award= Dr. Beard
PUA of the year award=
best tipper of the year award = The Matrix Revolutions
worst tipper of the year award=
worst newbie of the year award= Viper (sorry!)
but the year just started, wait till december.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
You forgot Dr. Beard, JcCrew, Thugo, bible belt, and becker.Originally posted by Bling
The Non-Juans: Dustin and Docs
mroriginal2
Don Juan
sosuave award=
Dj of the year award= Fash
Female Dj of the year award= Penkitten
Mature Dj of the year award= rollo tomassi
highschool Dj of the year award= AC/DC
Health and fitness award= warboss alex
moderator of the year award= diablo
troll of the year award= Zombie
PUA of the year award=
best tipper of the year award= Docs
worst tipper of the year award=
worst newbie of the year award=
best newbie of the year award= ethnomethodologist
Funniest member of the year award= mr. unique
most interesting member of the year award= mr. non juan
most liked member of the year award=
most hated member of the year award= alicorn
gayest member of the year award=
AFC of the year award=
most annoying member of the year award= boulepiquante
stupidest member of the year award=
smartest member of the year award= A- unit
best user name of the year award= (.)(.)
This thread is a ripoff.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mroriginal2
Don Juan
not really