"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJ awards?
- Thread starter Dustin
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Docs
Banned
Instead of the Best Tip Giver, how about using something like The Top 25 Recommended Best Tip Givers.
It's about recommendation, not picking.
So put out a thread asking 'Top 25 Tip Giver Recommendation thread.'
The topic should state that you can recommend anyone (multiple if they like) of posters that they feel are good at giving tips. People can also concur on how someone recommended 'Pook', for now I get into the next point....
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A poll is created after about 2 weeks of the thread running and it will include 25 of the most recommended posters. That is why allowing multiple recommendations per post, and concurness works.
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Fire away!
Edit: I better be recommended!!! lol.
Edit2: Crap, only 10 slots per poll.
Just let the thread run for a month and once its over, post the results in a new thread with a date of the findings. THen run another in 6 months/year
Docs
Banned
Basically. I'll look on the forum and see a topic named...
"Recommendations for 25 Best Tip Givers"
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You can post anyone you like, post multiple names please! You can also vote that a particular user is good. Only one vote is counted for each person per poster, so you can vote only once for one person, but you can vote for as many people as you wish.
This will run until Feburary 28th, when the top 25 best tip givers will be posted in a alternate thread for your viewing pleasure.
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OR
Topic title:
"Vote for the best ______"
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Rules:
One vote per nomination per poster. Unlimited nominations allowed. Will run for two months (March 30th).
Pick one or more people that fit the catagories
.The best tip givers:
The worst newbies:
The more funny trolls:
etc..
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Be sure to ask a mod (paradox/Rollo/Diablo) to get the thread stickied
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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Docs
Banned
Ouch, I can't qualify for that because I don't teach people how to not get girls/rid of them. I write articles on interaction between yourself and the girl and articles that involve self-improvement. (so I'm the next Pook successor! lol)Originally posted by Bling
The Non-Juans: Dustin and Docs
AC/DC, Franciso (sorry about poor spelling), Survivor (saw a recent post), Rollo Tollisio (spelling..), Smooth Player056, Sapiens, Desdinova, Deep Dish, Non Juan (lol), frivious (spelling...), So many more posters that write good stuff. I'll let you nominate me, because I can't cheat.
Edit: And that is why you let people suggest posters instead of making a "that's all I know" list.
mroriginal2
Don Juan
sosuave award=
Dj of the year award=
Female Dj of the year award=
Mature Dj of the year award=
highschool Dj of the year award=
Health and fitness award=
moderator of the year award=
troll of the year award=
PUA of the year award=
best tipper of the year award=
worst tipper of the year award=
worst newbie of the year award=
best newbie of the year award=
Funniest member of the year award=
most interesting member of the year award=
most liked member of the year award=
most hated member of the year award=
gayest member of the year award=
AFC of the year award=
most annoying member of the year award=
stupidest member of the year award=
smartest member of the year award=
best user name of the year award=
but the year just started, wait till december.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mroriginal2
Don Juan
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
this seems like a fun idea
sosuave award= sosuave.com
Dj of the year award= Senor Fingers
Female Dj of the year award= penkitten
Mature Dj of the year award= Giovanni Casanova
highschool Dj of the year award= AC/DC
moderator of the year award=
troll of the year award= Dr. Beard
PUA of the year award=
best tipper of the year award = The Matrix Revolutions
worst tipper of the year award=
worst newbie of the year award= Viper (sorry!)
but the year just started, wait till december.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
You forgot Dr. Beard, JcCrew, Thugo, bible belt, and becker.Originally posted by Bling
The Non-Juans: Dustin and Docs
mroriginal2
Don Juan
sosuave award=
Dj of the year award= Fash
Female Dj of the year award= Penkitten
Mature Dj of the year award= rollo tomassi
highschool Dj of the year award= AC/DC
Health and fitness award= warboss alex
moderator of the year award= diablo
troll of the year award= Zombie
PUA of the year award=
best tipper of the year award= Docs
worst tipper of the year award=
worst newbie of the year award=
best newbie of the year award= ethnomethodologist
Funniest member of the year award= mr. unique
most interesting member of the year award= mr. non juan
most liked member of the year award=
most hated member of the year award= alicorn
gayest member of the year award=
AFC of the year award=
most annoying member of the year award= boulepiquante
stupidest member of the year award=
smartest member of the year award= A- unit
best user name of the year award= (.)(.)
This thread is a ripoff.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mroriginal2
Don Juan
not really