"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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divorced single mom with kids

Bwub60

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Been on a date and things were positive goodnight kiss almost turned into goodnight hook up. My dilemma is how often do I contact because she works a second job on weekends when she doesnt have her kids. So she doesnt have a ton of time to hangout but she has made time for me last week. She was dating her Ex since she was 17(she is now 29). She filed almost a year ago and dated a guy for a couple of months after they split but things didnt work. So I dont feel like a rebound but she does have anxiety towards dating.

How should I handle this situation as far as texting and calling contact?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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El Payaso

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Dating a single mom is a terrible idea.
 

hockeyfreak79

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LMFAO said:
Single mums = pump and dump only.

This^^ happens to them all the time too. Not even worth the effort, even if it's 1 kid. Possibly STD risk, stretched p*ssy & stretch marks, still have baby fat. Don't waste your time or $$ bro.
 
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