"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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divorced single mom with kids

Bwub60

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Been on a date and things were positive goodnight kiss almost turned into goodnight hook up. My dilemma is how often do I contact because she works a second job on weekends when she doesnt have her kids. So she doesnt have a ton of time to hangout but she has made time for me last week. She was dating her Ex since she was 17(she is now 29). She filed almost a year ago and dated a guy for a couple of months after they split but things didnt work. So I dont feel like a rebound but she does have anxiety towards dating.

How should I handle this situation as far as texting and calling contact?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El Payaso

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Dating a single mom is a terrible idea.
 

hockeyfreak79

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LMFAO said:
Single mums = pump and dump only.

This^^ happens to them all the time too. Not even worth the effort, even if it's 1 kid. Possibly STD risk, stretched p*ssy & stretch marks, still have baby fat. Don't waste your time or $$ bro.
 
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