"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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divorced single mom with kids

Bwub60

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Been on a date and things were positive goodnight kiss almost turned into goodnight hook up. My dilemma is how often do I contact because she works a second job on weekends when she doesnt have her kids. So she doesnt have a ton of time to hangout but she has made time for me last week. She was dating her Ex since she was 17(she is now 29). She filed almost a year ago and dated a guy for a couple of months after they split but things didnt work. So I dont feel like a rebound but she does have anxiety towards dating.

How should I handle this situation as far as texting and calling contact?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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Dating a single mom is a terrible idea.
 

hockeyfreak79

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LMFAO said:
Single mums = pump and dump only.

This^^ happens to them all the time too. Not even worth the effort, even if it's 1 kid. Possibly STD risk, stretched p*ssy & stretch marks, still have baby fat. Don't waste your time or $$ bro.
 
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