"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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divorced single mom with kids

Bwub60

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Been on a date and things were positive goodnight kiss almost turned into goodnight hook up. My dilemma is how often do I contact because she works a second job on weekends when she doesnt have her kids. So she doesnt have a ton of time to hangout but she has made time for me last week. She was dating her Ex since she was 17(she is now 29). She filed almost a year ago and dated a guy for a couple of months after they split but things didnt work. So I dont feel like a rebound but she does have anxiety towards dating.

How should I handle this situation as far as texting and calling contact?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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El Payaso

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Dating a single mom is a terrible idea.
 

hockeyfreak79

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LMFAO said:
Single mums = pump and dump only.

This^^ happens to them all the time too. Not even worth the effort, even if it's 1 kid. Possibly STD risk, stretched p*ssy & stretch marks, still have baby fat. Don't waste your time or $$ bro.
 
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