"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anybody else find it really disturbing how chicks keep saying the opposite of what they mean?

And act really really pissy when your not sexual?

Anybody else get this a lot? :crazy:

ALWAYS LEAD and ALWAYS BE SEXUAL and ALWAYS EXPECT THEY WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU.

ACTION ACTION ACTION. The second you stop the action, be ready for some pain.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's because she wants sex to be "your fault" rather than "her fault".

It's annoying, I was making out with a chick not 2 hours ago (!) and this exact thing happened!

I started to slip her shirt off, and she said "no, sorry", and pushed my hand away. So I backed off and just kissed her gently for a bit . . . and she got a little pissy, then left.

What I SHOULD have done is tried again one minute later, then again and again, until she got aroused enough to go on. I know this, but I still slip from time to time in the escalaiton.
 
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Exactly.. just a few hours ago as well I was told I was going to fast with a girl.. calling me sleazy so I stopped (I didn't want to cause sh!t) but she still wanted to go alone somewhere anyway.. her idea..

I never touched her again or acted sexual the rest of the time.. she got all pissed off and started insulting me for real calling me a homo and sh!t... lol

I didn't hit me until later and I wrote this post lol.. ah well live in learn.
 
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I'm saying I always kind of have but it's so disturbing you try to forget it.. gotta let the pain of regret pound that fact into your head.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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arlanda said:
Just accept it as a fact. Chicks are like that.
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Dont just accept it, use it to your advantage!


One of the most important things to remember (if you are an RAFC) or fell (if you are a DJ) is that you should always be in a sexual state when you are around girls.

We all now that girls can be real b!tches, projecting your sexuality (not like a pervert, think James Bond) can really change them into puppies. Maybe this is one of the most important differences between a DJ and a AFC, one knows and acts upon it, the AFC just waits for the püssy to land on his penis.

We as men now what we want from the instance we see a girl. A DJ isnt afraid to show it. Girls now it too, and they like someone to lead them, its in their genes. As soon as you stop projecting sexuality she will see you as a beta that is afraid to take the püssy he wants.

All girls have an inner slüt willing to sück d!ck from the guy that puts it in her mouth, so don't be afraid to be the one that gives it to her ;)
 
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The thing that hurts the most is I already know all this stuff yet still do the AFC thing time and time again.
 
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Knowing what you're supposed to do and Doing what you're supposed to do are two totally different things

-John Madden
 
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I never touched her again or acted sexual the rest of the time..
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I also did this in the past. The mistake here is that you, like I did, took it personally.


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The thing that hurts the most is I already know all this stuff yet still do the AFC thing time and time again.
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There is a big difference between knowing and feeling.


There are a lot of reasons why people are on this site. I wanted to be able to seduce whatever girl I would want, kind of like Casanova, Anti-Dump wanted a wife, Pook wrote as a therapy to himself, but others, and here is what I want to talk about, others are here because something from their love life hurt them. Either not getting some girl, or his wife left him, or their girlfriend cheated on him with 3 of his best mates.

Its only this horrible pain that made them take one of the most important decisions of their lives. They decided that they will change. Remember change is only one decision away.

If it hurts you then it will push you to develop into a better man faster. Not only accept the pain, but also use it to your advantage. ;)
 
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Yeah, but I suggest to treat kids as wom... wait... treat women as kids, and you guys get all ballistic. :crazy:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If a girls says you're going to fast you better not slow donw. I would just seem wrong.
 
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