"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anybody else find it really disturbing how chicks keep saying the opposite of what they mean?

And act really really pissy when your not sexual?

Anybody else get this a lot? :crazy:

ALWAYS LEAD and ALWAYS BE SEXUAL and ALWAYS EXPECT THEY WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU.

ACTION ACTION ACTION. The second you stop the action, be ready for some pain.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's because she wants sex to be "your fault" rather than "her fault".

It's annoying, I was making out with a chick not 2 hours ago (!) and this exact thing happened!

I started to slip her shirt off, and she said "no, sorry", and pushed my hand away. So I backed off and just kissed her gently for a bit . . . and she got a little pissy, then left.

What I SHOULD have done is tried again one minute later, then again and again, until she got aroused enough to go on. I know this, but I still slip from time to time in the escalaiton.
 
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Exactly.. just a few hours ago as well I was told I was going to fast with a girl.. calling me sleazy so I stopped (I didn't want to cause sh!t) but she still wanted to go alone somewhere anyway.. her idea..

I never touched her again or acted sexual the rest of the time.. she got all pissed off and started insulting me for real calling me a homo and sh!t... lol

I didn't hit me until later and I wrote this post lol.. ah well live in learn.
 
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I'm saying I always kind of have but it's so disturbing you try to forget it.. gotta let the pain of regret pound that fact into your head.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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arlanda said:
Just accept it as a fact. Chicks are like that.
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Dont just accept it, use it to your advantage!


One of the most important things to remember (if you are an RAFC) or fell (if you are a DJ) is that you should always be in a sexual state when you are around girls.

We all now that girls can be real b!tches, projecting your sexuality (not like a pervert, think James Bond) can really change them into puppies. Maybe this is one of the most important differences between a DJ and a AFC, one knows and acts upon it, the AFC just waits for the püssy to land on his penis.

We as men now what we want from the instance we see a girl. A DJ isnt afraid to show it. Girls now it too, and they like someone to lead them, its in their genes. As soon as you stop projecting sexuality she will see you as a beta that is afraid to take the püssy he wants.

All girls have an inner slüt willing to sück d!ck from the guy that puts it in her mouth, so don't be afraid to be the one that gives it to her ;)
 
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The thing that hurts the most is I already know all this stuff yet still do the AFC thing time and time again.
 
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Knowing what you're supposed to do and Doing what you're supposed to do are two totally different things

-John Madden
 
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I never touched her again or acted sexual the rest of the time..
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I also did this in the past. The mistake here is that you, like I did, took it personally.


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The thing that hurts the most is I already know all this stuff yet still do the AFC thing time and time again.
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There is a big difference between knowing and feeling.


There are a lot of reasons why people are on this site. I wanted to be able to seduce whatever girl I would want, kind of like Casanova, Anti-Dump wanted a wife, Pook wrote as a therapy to himself, but others, and here is what I want to talk about, others are here because something from their love life hurt them. Either not getting some girl, or his wife left him, or their girlfriend cheated on him with 3 of his best mates.

Its only this horrible pain that made them take one of the most important decisions of their lives. They decided that they will change. Remember change is only one decision away.

If it hurts you then it will push you to develop into a better man faster. Not only accept the pain, but also use it to your advantage. ;)
 
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Yeah, but I suggest to treat kids as wom... wait... treat women as kids, and you guys get all ballistic. :crazy:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If a girls says you're going to fast you better not slow donw. I would just seem wrong.
 
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