"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anybody else find it really disturbing how chicks keep saying the opposite of what they mean?

And act really really pissy when your not sexual?

Anybody else get this a lot? :crazy:

ALWAYS LEAD and ALWAYS BE SEXUAL and ALWAYS EXPECT THEY WANT SOMETHING FROM YOU.

ACTION ACTION ACTION. The second you stop the action, be ready for some pain.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's because she wants sex to be "your fault" rather than "her fault".

It's annoying, I was making out with a chick not 2 hours ago (!) and this exact thing happened!

I started to slip her shirt off, and she said "no, sorry", and pushed my hand away. So I backed off and just kissed her gently for a bit . . . and she got a little pissy, then left.

What I SHOULD have done is tried again one minute later, then again and again, until she got aroused enough to go on. I know this, but I still slip from time to time in the escalaiton.
 

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Exactly.. just a few hours ago as well I was told I was going to fast with a girl.. calling me sleazy so I stopped (I didn't want to cause sh!t) but she still wanted to go alone somewhere anyway.. her idea..

I never touched her again or acted sexual the rest of the time.. she got all pissed off and started insulting me for real calling me a homo and sh!t... lol

I didn't hit me until later and I wrote this post lol.. ah well live in learn.
 

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I'm saying I always kind of have but it's so disturbing you try to forget it.. gotta let the pain of regret pound that fact into your head.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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arlanda said:
Just accept it as a fact. Chicks are like that.
Dont just accept it, use it to your advantage!


One of the most important things to remember (if you are an RAFC) or fell (if you are a DJ) is that you should always be in a sexual state when you are around girls.

We all now that girls can be real b!tches, projecting your sexuality (not like a pervert, think James Bond) can really change them into puppies. Maybe this is one of the most important differences between a DJ and a AFC, one knows and acts upon it, the AFC just waits for the püssy to land on his penis.

We as men now what we want from the instance we see a girl. A DJ isnt afraid to show it. Girls now it too, and they like someone to lead them, its in their genes. As soon as you stop projecting sexuality she will see you as a beta that is afraid to take the püssy he wants.

All girls have an inner slüt willing to sück d!ck from the guy that puts it in her mouth, so don't be afraid to be the one that gives it to her ;)
 

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The thing that hurts the most is I already know all this stuff yet still do the AFC thing time and time again.
 

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Knowing what you're supposed to do and Doing what you're supposed to do are two totally different things

-John Madden
 

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Bvbidd said:
I never touched her again or acted sexual the rest of the time..
I also did this in the past. The mistake here is that you, like I did, took it personally.


Bvbidd said:
The thing that hurts the most is I already know all this stuff yet still do the AFC thing time and time again.
There is a big difference between knowing and feeling.


There are a lot of reasons why people are on this site. I wanted to be able to seduce whatever girl I would want, kind of like Casanova, Anti-Dump wanted a wife, Pook wrote as a therapy to himself, but others, and here is what I want to talk about, others are here because something from their love life hurt them. Either not getting some girl, or his wife left him, or their girlfriend cheated on him with 3 of his best mates.

Its only this horrible pain that made them take one of the most important decisions of their lives. They decided that they will change. Remember change is only one decision away.

If it hurts you then it will push you to develop into a better man faster. Not only accept the pain, but also use it to your advantage. ;)
 

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Yeah, but I suggest to treat kids as wom... wait... treat women as kids, and you guys get all ballistic. :crazy:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If a girls says you're going to fast you better not slow donw. I would just seem wrong.
 
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